I will not say I am an expert by any stretch. However, I have noticed this in the one ABS I have been to.
I have been there 4 times now and am hooked. However, there always seems to be a few guys standing, talking, laughing, and generally seem to be ruining it for everyone.
I would fall into the Bi/Discreet category at this point. YES these guys do make me nervous. I don't want to be around them. I left the second time I was there because there was such a loud group. I find it interesting that this is common.
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