Yup. Mimicking and matching up the other dude(s) actions will clearly signal that you are the game. So far, this has worked virtually everywhere.

Yet, this is your home turf. And a regular health club should never be confused with a gay spa, where everything goes. Over the time, most dudes will find all the build up and no release rather frustrating. Plus, watching that frosted door and thinking about the consequences of being busted are not precisely conducive to having limitless fun.

So, after making sure that you are on the same page with this other dude, make sure he gets your private cell number. "dude, we can help each other out..." will get some guys calling for more.

You do not need to develop a full-blown (pun???) relationship but a cool buddy on the side can make it truly enjoyable for both of you...

KD

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