Wednesday was my first time in 117, a pleasant and educational experience. I entered a bit after six. Two garotos, approached me in a the lockers room, but I didn’t fancy them.

Most of the guys were sitting at the outside smoking patio, which is quieter than the bar with the loud music. I took a stool at the back, and at first felt lonely and abandoned, wondering where are all those handsome guys that were supposed to be flashing their wares and coming on to me “like bees to honey” (as one of you had ‘warned’ me). My general sense is that unless you’re a wham-bam sort of guy, it’s not a nice feeling to be alone in a sauna where you can’t really converse with anyone.

Anyway, at some point the guys did start approaching me. The first who caught my attention was a black garoto who progressed to licking, nipple teasing, and encouraging my hand onto his blooming imprssive cock. I decided if no one better came along I’d go with him, and told him (in body-sign language) I might search him out later. Not two minutes passed, and another guy came along: nice lean body, good looking and sort of English-speaking to boot!

We sat chatting and making out for quite a while; he was a real passionate kisser. I ordered drinks for us, when the black garoto re-appeared. He didn’t look happy that someone had moved in, and at first sat on my other side cuddling me. Well, there’s a heaven for you! However, after three minutes of not fitting into the chat, he gave up. At this point, Aundre (I’m sure I’m misspelling as well as mispronouncing) commenced the negotiations. He said 100, I said 50, he said 80, I said 60, we agreed on 70. Perhaps I could have held out for less, but what for? I had already decided he’d get a nice tip for spending so much time with me before the programa, as well as for just being a nice person…

By the time the programa was over it was 8:30 and the place was packing. Since I was carrying no sign of “just finished a programa”, I was solicited again and again. It’s a pity there was no place left to sit down; I would have loved to get up close and personal with the gorgeous guys who came in while I was with Aundre(?). I did go to the wanking room, but unfortunately my manners got the better of me: I just felt too awkward staring at the guys, otherwise I’d stay till closing time. Later someone told me that I really shouldn’t have stared; instead, I should have gone from garoto togaroto and offered to help…

Now, please excuse me for sounding like goody-two-shoes, but just a thought/question. There wsa a post a while ago, about treating garotos with respect, for example by tipping them for time and body contact invested during a ‘courthsip’ that wasn’t consumated. Before leaving, I walked around with some money in my hand (after I had paid for the programa) in order to find the black guy, but failed. If it’s acceptable to tip the ‘also rans’, how do you do it with no money on you?

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