Guys in the valley
 

There must be some guys in the S.F. Valley that just want to exchange head. I'm MWM, looking for a good blow job from time to time and I love to return the favor.

Guys in the valley
 

I don't live in the valley, but I can get there. Just let me know when and where, and you have a blowjob. Mmm.

Really Sad
 

I have not used this website for over 2 years. It's sad that guys don't visit the site as often as they used to. I logged-on yesterday and today only to find out that I was the only one who has the thread connected to this site. This used to be the site. It is unfortunate. If you look at the number of posting here it'll give you an indication of how unpopular this site became. Don't get me wrong. I like this site but this site's future is doomed if the stake holders of this site don't do anything. I'm looking for the same but it's discouraging to post on this site.

Hey Red, I'm in Glendale and would love to exchange some oral with you.

Phillip

alwayshot....
I was wondering the same thing, why has the popularity of this site gone down? Is it because there are so many other sites to cruise? I also noticed bars are not as busy as they used to be. Not to mention cruisy restrooms...

Another reason...
 

With gays being more accepted openly, there is less reliance on these kinds of "marginalized" websites and bars to hook up with others. I myself find I am going less to "Gay Only" bars & restaurants, because I am feeling more at ease in mixed places. Secretively hooking up for sex is still fun and appealing, but it's no longer the only way. Why risk getting arrested in the park, when there are plenty of other perfectly legal options available now.

I think Craigslist might be to blame too.

If your not under 30, & hung it's so fucking hard to have sex. When they're 20 they want 18 to 20 when they are 50 they want 18 to 30. I'm so sick of that "same as me" bullshit. Craigslist is a joke. the only way to have sex on craigslist is if you
#1: want to fuck raw
#2: want to fuck but have to be under 30
#4: want to fuck
#5 want to fuck a hot ass
#6: want to fuck
It's just a bottom site for str8 bi hung jock married to woman people who want a huge one up their ass FOR the first time of course)

CFS died with a remake 2 yrs ago
 

If it weren't so sad I'd be laughing my ass off. This site was awesome for years. Then 2 years ago they redid it with tons of pop up ads which were annoying at best, caused crashes due to system overload at worst. Thats been fixed as near as I can tell.
It however drove guys away.

The other change that made it less user friendly was how the personal ads are run. Used to be series of drop down's organized by state or area if really big and everything was there in a row. None of this haveing to do "searches" and "advanced searches"

Their chat isn't user friendly either since you have to go into another site entirely.

We have a lot of dummies who still post questions on where they cruise for outdoor sex. I use it as a guide as to where NOT to go as the local police look at those messages as a guide for setting up stings. Guys, as much fun as sex outdoors is, it is illegal to do so in public places. I ain't claiming I haven't done it, its I've seen enough busts done over the years to avoid places posted her as being really active. Not worth an arrest.

End result a place where I met many nice guys, some now I call friends with "benefits" so it wasn't all that bad.

The competition got really intense. Since the naming of them would be erased, suffice it to say they have real time chat with huge rooms that making meeting new pals or simply hooking up a lot easier. Craiglist...there's a joke and summed up nicely on why it won't work.

I abandoned this site entirely for over a year (new pc, better firewall and popup blockers make it easier to come in) and was so totally shocked to see how little it is used now. I still check in mostly for laughs.

There's also some interesting comments regarding agism here. ITs existed in this community no matter where you go for years. But that's a whole nother issue and a side bar at best to describe what happened here.

Off Topic
 

Guys, this topic was a request looking for "guys in the Valley." It's turned into a discussion way off topic now.

Keith has a forum for Suggestions, Comments and Complaints. Please have this discussion there. Thanks.

Sorry "lovereds" this topic went beyond your request.

NORTHRIDGE ORAL
 

Hi guys.

on thursday, march 16th. from 330pm to 6pm. There will be some action at the upstairs mens lockerroom at CSUN. IT is the men's upstair lockerroom in the MATADOR GYMNASIUM, the last stall. its unlocked, discrete, and no bullshit. have some fun. I'll be there.