nice to give them pleasure, but i think i am the one who is pleasured when i am giving the blowjob. and i've never been forced to swallow..i always love to have a guy cum into my mouth when i am doing lovely things to his cock with my mouth and tongue!

"Giving the guy pleasure - getting him to cum - is the entire point of a blow job!" (Jonn3)

"nice to give them pleasure, but i think i am the one who is pleasured when i am giving the blowjob. and i've never been forced to swallow..i always love to have a guy cum into my mouth when i am doing lovely things to his cock with my mouth and tongue!" (orallyours61)

To be honest (at least for me), both of you are right. The guy getting blown wants to unload his balls, but I also want him to explode in my mouth because I'm thirsty! Its a win-win scenario! :p:D

Here's the real question I want answered. Would it be weird if the guy getting sucked off didn't want to force there loads inside of you? I don't want to be forced into an act, but I'd almost be insulted if they didn't try to force the cum in you at least once. Just my thoughts on the matter.

My issue is with the word "forced".

No one ever had to force me. When I am sucking cock I expect him to cum in my mouth. It is his pleasure. It is my pleasure and my reward for a job well done.

I do find it funny when the guy I am sucking acts surprised that I will let him cum in my mouth. The point of sex is the pleasure - so why would either of us want to stop?

When younger some guys were surprised that I was willing - and some married guys are amazed that it happens :o but I just consider it part of giving a blow job.

I agree...you cannot "force" the willing ;)

With married guys, i have run into that too. I think in that case, the reason is that they have wives that will not give head so they aren't used to a blowjob to full completion.

It is funny how many wives do not want to blow their husbands - or do so poorly it is no fun.

There is a picture floating around on the net of a woman at her wedding with giant smile on her face and the caption is "The joy of knowing she will never have to give another blow job".

I have a buddy that I fooled around with for years - when he got married he told me that was over - he was going to be faithful. After a couple of years I was visiting and he eventually brought the subject up and asked for a bj - apparently his wife is really bad at them and does not even try to get better.

I wish he lived closer. ;)

I had a friend like that years back too. Omg! if his wife ever found out i was the "other woman"...he knew i dressed up so he bought me some lingerie. amazed she never caught the red lipstick left on his cock after blowjobs! hehehe