The problem I have with guys is that some are curious, but they freak out when opportunities present themselves. The biggest problem is that many guys who are craving cock are worried about "turning gay." I have been playing with guys since age 5. I have fucked girls and guys since my teens. I am not worried about turning gay. I am more worried what hole I am going to sink my dick into next!

We grew up in a time when the worst insult you could attack a guy with was being gay... we might do the deed - but we did not want to talk about it or acknowledge that we did it until the next time we were horny.

The kids today are much more accepting of the idea of gay or bi - but it seems like they have much less opportunity. We always saw each other naked - and if someone had a good supply of magazines or even better a VHS tape - they were going to find friends to jack off with (or more). Now everyone watches porn in private on their phone - so they may not have the stigma attached to gay sex - but it seems like they don't have the casual experiences that were pretty common when I grew up.

Yes, we always saw each other naked, especially in high school in the locker room and showers. Kids today won't shower after a work out. They are too shy someone will see their dick!!! I have never been shy in the locker room. Even today, I walk completely naked to the shower at the gym. No towel wrapped around me. I WANT people to see me!! lol

It amazes me how they have grown up feeling that being naked in any situation is wrong.

I remember we all saw each other and it was no big deal (well it got to be more of a big deal as I got more and more into sex with guys) but being naked in front of each other was just something that happened and you did not really think about.

I would go over to a friends house and his Mom would say "Jimmy is still in the shower getting ready - go on up" and I would go up to his room and we would chat as he dried off and got dressed.

It actually helped us all realize we all are the same yet different - and as puberty set in we knew more of what to expect from seeing friends.

Kids today won't even pee at the urinal in a public restroom. They go into a stall as if they are afraid someone might see their little pricks. lol. I stand proudly at the stall. If someone looks, I give that bad boy a couple of shakes to make it harden!!

Very true - we never gave a thought to changing or being seen by a friend - after all we were all guys. And a lot of times it moved on to openly comparing - most of them it never went beyond that - but "mine's bigger" very often ended with "prove it".

I dream sometimes of me being in high school and during showers, the guys start to suck and fuck. Nobody even the slightest bit shy about it. Almost as if it was expected. Oh the fun we could have had if that dream was true!

I think back on those days and am so thankful that fear kept me soft in the showers!

But there was one time it was close - I had health class right before gym and the teacher had talked about how somewhere between 5 - 10% of the population is gay, with more being bisexual and the teacher made sure to stress how even more experiment at some point in their lives and it does not mean you are gay.

Well my mind wandered back to those statistics as I was standing in the shower room surrounded by all my classmates naked and I started thinking there must be a couple of gay guys in here right now.

Suddenly I could tell I needed to rinse off and get to the towels FAST! Thankfully it never got beyond a semi and I don't THINK anyone noticed -

I started experimenting and playing with cocks at age 5. I hadn't sucked one, but in seventh grade, a boy sucked me and swallowed. By the time I was in high school, I was equally interested in cock and ass as I was in pussy!!! I am 61 now, and nothing has changed. I am very, very bi.

That is great that you were comfortable with being bi that young.

I am also bi and kept expecting I would "out grow" my attraction to other guys like some of my friends who used to play around had. But my love of cock never faded like theirs did (or they claimed it did - I wonder how many later in life returned to being bi).

I never expected to grow out of it. I tried to stop playing with guys. I swore I would never do it again.The urge just got stronger. Finally, I started having sex with women. Loved it!!! Thought that would change me. Nope. Still wanted guys, but I definitely was horny for women. Finally resigned myself to accept that I am bi and I need man sex as much as female sex. I could never live with just one or the other. I need both to maintain my sexual mental health.

First time bj first time swallow
 

I thought that was the rules!

My "rule" is deep throat and swallow if he lets you!! lol

I always swallow if I feel confident the guy is "clean". I have known a number of guys who turned / returned to sex with men because their wife would not swallow.

It is like "dotting the I" or "crossing the T" - it is what you do to complete the task!

I love to swallow, especially in a 69 where the other guys swallows my cum too.

I view it as a reward for both the sucker and the suckie

i love the reward as the suckee slut!
XXXoxoxoxo

What I like is when it is mutual sucking and we get to "reward" each other!

chicago suburbs
 

i invited a friend over to have a beer and watch hockey game, have a few beers and although i did not know how he would react, i went to bathroom and came out in sexy tights, high cut thong with very very short skin tight dress and 6 in strapped heels. i walked in and asked him if he wanted another beer and he was in shock, he said you look so fucking hot, i went and got him another beer allowing my dress to slide father up my ass on my return, handed him the beer and lifted my heel to rub his bulge, he stood up and pushed me down, i unzipped him and he was hard as a rock as i slid my lips all the way down his cock and before i knew it, he just exploded down my throat, all of it, incredible, that was my 1st and he has now been my 2nd 3rd and so on

There is something so amazing about being the "first" to suck a buddy off. They have cum from their own hands - but the knowledge that you were the first person other than himself to make him cum is so exciting...

Visiting a sacred site
 

Not the first time I swallowed but the first time I was swallowed was such a sacred moment that I recently went back to the spot where it happened decades ago, and that's in another country. I was really young at that time and scared. I hooked up with someone in a public swimming pool (who was in fact even younger than myself but apparently had much more experience). We went behind a stadium to a bush and he started sucking me. It felt weird for me at that time as I had never experienced it before. Then, I told him I was about to cum, expecting he would pull out but he took it all into his mouth. I was shocked and scared at that time but on hindsight it was so phenomenal and had set the standard for me being sucked and swallowed every time I have sex. I do also suck and swallow but being sucked and swallowed is my regular cup of tea. To get back to the story when I visited the "sacred site", the stadium is still there and some renovations had been made, though the bush is gone. I stayed at that very spot for some time to pay homage. It was indeed a sacred experience.

If you like the feeling of being sucked and the other guy swallowing and you like sucking too, you need to do a 69 where you both swallow each other. It is mind blowing!!!

It is funny how sometimes a location can become so associated with sex in our minds. There were some places where I knew if we went there it was for sex so if my buddy said "You want to go to the hayloft?" I instantly started getting hard because I knew what he was really asking...

That was me when I was in Southern California. If you look in the Sex Listings for Riverside/San Bernardino Counties and then look at Cajon Pass, you will see some of my posts about hook ups I have had there. The place is still going strong. I miss the hook ups there, but I don't miss Commiefornia!!! lol

buttpiratesc -

I see you are now in South Carolina. Beautiful country there! I have had a couple of good hookups in North and South Carolina - lots of closeted married guys who are looking for cock play but being raised in the religious South they never would accept they were into guys.

Hope you are enjoying them!

We should all get together and have the best suck off fest ever.

Cocksure, where were you when I was living in California? lol.

Maybe too young at the time but I've always been here.

I moved out of SoCal in 2021.

...I wanna have my throat bruised!
 

I can't wait to have my first after reading these stories!
Anyone near mass NH or VT

My first time was at a party with 30 people watching
 

I was in my 30s my wife had arranged a surprise birthday party for me.there was 15 couples that attended. A my surprise present She had arranged for couple of our friends to fuck me for my first experience.

While I was being fucked by one friend. The other friend came up to my face and was stroking his cock. I could see the precum dripping from his cock. I grabbed his cock and started licking his head and shaft. Then I started sucking on his head. I could taste his precum. I started taking more of his cock in my mouth until I could feel his head hitting my throat.
He asked if I wanted him to cum in my mouth. I told him yes. Then he grabbed the back of my head and started to thrust his cock down my throat. I was surprised that I was able to take his 7.5 inch cock. I could feel his balls hitting my chin.
The. I could tell that he was ready to cum. He thrust one last time down my throat and held it there while he cum . It was amazing to feel his cum shooting. I started to gag when he finally pulled out. Then I proceeded to clean up the cum off his cock.
That night I ended up sucking over 10 cocks that night.
It was the best birthday gift my wife gave me.
I enjoy the taste of cum and the fact that I was able to give a guy pleasure.

And I used to be upset they did not get a pony for my birthday party!

;-)

I guess I was that pony everyone got to ride.

We are all nudist. Some are swingers. Wife knew my curiosity and she was encouraging of it. She got talking to the other wives whose husbands are bi. They were the ones that came up with the idea on my birthday.

That sounds like an amazing first time, and a very supportive wife!

The married guys I know all do it on the DL because either their wife does not know they are bi or the wife is not interested in sex anymore.

I'm married in my 30s was always curious but in vermont its tough.
Met a older gentleman from the site he came to my place
Any way I was nervous he grabbed my dick and said let's get to it! My God it was great I was sucking his cock 5" of heaven and he was telling me how good I was! Before I knew it he said give me your fat cock so we 69 as I'm sucking away I never expected him to finger my ass I at first was like I'm not ready for that. He said keep sucking so I did! Next thing I know I hear a grunt and get a sweet load! Then I bust all in his mouth it was amazing!

Sovtfirst - That is great that you final had the opportunity to explore your curiosity!

It is amazing when you suddenly realize his load is in your mouth - AND YOU LIKE IT!

It was an amazing experience.yes she is very supportive. After that we started finding guys we both could fuck.

I’ve finally became a cocksucker
For years I’d only let others blow me, I wouldn’t return the favor
A gent in California showed me how to deep throat and then swallow
I realized how much I enjoyed his cock in my mouth
The thought of semen no longer made me gag, but turned me on
The only issue is finding enough cock to suck

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A gent in California showed me how to deep throat and then swallow
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I wish someone could teach me how to deep throat (comfortably). Most of my life, the fellas were not long enough to actually deep throat., but could still trigger the gag if they were thrusting.
I did have a period where a couple of semi-regulars who could 'reach' and if they showed up frequently enough I found myself going deeper. but after a few weeks i was back to normal. :confused:

Funny - I have never really had a problem. From the first time I sucked cock and then from the first time I swallowed it just felt right.

Although I have not been "face fucked" often - I usually am the active one working his cock - and if you gag just a bit I think a lot of guys take that as a complement!