how to know
 

I am a straight looking trans-man. I want to suck other guys cocks on the DL. How do I know who wants the same things I do. I'd like a straight man who is experienced to clue me in. I fantasize about sucking my landlords cock. I am afraid to out or embarrass myself. What do i look for or how do I know if he wants something like that. Or how do I identify any man that is good for a secret rendezvous? And what do I do to make my move or when do I know if another guy is trying to signal to me?