Dick size in personals?
 

Ok I have a question on dick size that I need help on. In personal ads what size would you call average, large, ex-large. Just would like to find out what everyone have for an idea.

I think the size in inches (or cm) is a very subjective indicator and it may be misleading to consider that at all.

Whenever Ive tried to measure mine, it's never over 7in, which seems smaller than the sizes most guys quote online. Yet having seen a few thousand dicks in my life, I know mine is maybe in the top 20%.

So I think the actual size people advertise is not reliable as an indicator. To me a much more realistic indicator is how big guys think their cock is respect to average (ie. the *relative* size). And I find most guys are quite honest when the question is put this way.

This site positively encourages lying. The two smallest dick sizes you can choose in your profile are "under 7" and "between 7 and 8". Now consider that 90% of guys are smaller than 7" and average is somewhere between 5.5 & 6. You can see that if you are above average at 6.5 and want to communicate that you have to choose the "8 or 9" option.

I agree with usotsuki and think that most guys don't really have a good idea about actual size, only about what is average and what will fill their ass or throat well but comfortably. Whenever there is the option I state that I've got a 95th percentile dick and people get the idea.

Regardless of what is normal or average one should always keep in mind that the formula for determining dick size in U.S. inches from the size reported in an on-line ad is as follows: To the reported size add 3 inches and divide by 2.

I just gotta say, guys -- while we all know lots of guys lie about dick size... my own experience is that most men I meet tell the truth.

I know I do. And when I'm asked if I am "hung," I have to say no, much to the dismay of a few size queens out there.

Yet "hung" is a subjective term, sadly. One guy I know repeatedly tells me: "Dude, your dick is NOT small, you know. You have a nice mouthful going on."

But other dudes do not feel the same.

So I never really know what to say when asked about being "hung" or not. I decided to just give the REAL measurement and let the guy determine for himself if this works for him.

General rule of thumb: if a guys asks dick size or types the question "Hung?" within the first twenty seconds of a conversation, I know my six inches is NOT enough for him.

Caveat: now and then I find a dude who might be into bigger dicks but likes how my cock LOOKS enough to not care about size so much.

So don't risk blowing a hot encounter based on dick size alone, no matter what end of the discussion you are on -- YOUR dick size or HIS.

PS: I'm not sure if CFS can be said to promote lying -- the option to select a dick UNDER seven inches doesn't mean you have to lie, you just have to select UNDER SEVEN INCHES.

However, I have long felt that the CFS profile options need updating in many respects, with more room to simply type in responses to the questions. For example, "pig" is the only option that comes halfway close to describing me, from the list provided. Yet I am not a COMPLETE pig -- I get into sensual and romantic stuff, too, but there's no place to put that.

With the recent changes to the site, some profile changes in addition would be most welcome in the near future.