Do men or women give the best blow job?
 

Truthfully, which sex (as a generalization) gives a better blow job, and why?

I personally feel men give a better blow job. The women I have been with, if they can be talked into a blow job, seem to approach it as foreplay to get the man stiff to fuck them. Even in porn, most of the actresses suck on the head, and maybe swirl their dick around the head. When it comes time to unload your jism, you better warn them. Most I have know want to take your "nasty thing" out of their mouth before you "soil them". And they point it away to be sure it doesn't get on them.

Guys I have know have often been the ones to proposition me. They are eager to go down on a nice piece of meat. And when they do, they enjoy it. They cram as much of your meat as possible into their throat. They'll gladly play with your balls, even suck them. The only reason to warn them you are cumming is so they can stop playing with your balls and ass, and concentrate on that sweet nectar going into their throat. Even those guys who are reluctant to swallow don't dodge the cum, they'll spray it all over their chest, their balls, and even their ass to lube it up for the next round.

To women, sucking their man's dick is just the route to get him to fuck them. To men, sucking their man's dick is just one stop along the way in an orgy journey.

Let's hear your opinion.

Me do
 

I give the best blow job. I am a man. Thus men give the best head. I agree. Woman have a pussy that is hungry so cocksucking is just pleasant foreplay. They know where it's going. Whit me ALL I want is to suck your cock. I LOVE COCK.

From personal experience, as well as having given and received gazillions of blow jobs, it's men by a mile. My ex-wife wouldn't suck my dick for anything. Like you said, many chicks do it begrudgingly and quite poorly, only to get a guy hard. Every guy I have been with who's experienced women agrees with me.

We need to have a contest!
 

I now what we need! The Forum Contest was good (I won 2nd place) and the new Buddy Contest is cool, but we need to tell Keith it is time for a BEST CFS COCKSUCKER Contest. We could arrange regional eliminations, and send the best to a National Finals at the CFS headquarters. Can you image the packed audience at that event?

No prizes, just being in the contest will be its own reward. Of course, there will be no shortage (hehe) of willing judges.

I've been conducting that contest for years. So far I keep winning.

No, you've either been in training or preliminary selection of qualified applicants. Of course, all in the name of the cause!

Would the IRS allow tax deductions for expenses incurred:

laundry
motel rooms
condoms/dental dams
travel (cruising can eat up a lot of gas)
tolls (the best rest areas are on the Turnpike)

I have gotten many blow jobs from women, and many blow jobs from men. My opinion is without question that guys give the better blow job. Women tend to be too gentle, as if they're afraid to hurt it. Men aren't afraid to suck, lick, and stroke and the sensation is a lot more intense. They're also a lot more creative with the love juice (as a previous post stated).

I'd definitely be up for a contest!
I don't know if I'd win, but I'd have a hell of a lot of fun trying!!

I think Men are more eager to suck cock, and their are woman out there who love it just as much but for the most part men know what it feels like and get into it alot more.......on a side note the best BJ i have ever recieved was from a woman and a man at the same time.

Generally guys give better blow jobs but the 2 or three best I have ever had were from women....

The real key is that they love doing it - and I find that more with guys.

So many women just give an up / down mechanical blow job.

And then you will find a guy who will be licking your balls and piss slit and playing with your ass - loving every minute of it!

I've never been in a situation where a woman has given me a blow job, so I can't comment on the respective performance. Anyway, it's always dangerous to generalise.

I've had some fanbtastic, sensual, prolonged BJs from guys, and some rough ones where they forget to keep their teeth out of the way. I don't often have a BJ to climax, as I always like it first before I go on to fuck a guy.

Cocksucking is a skill and like any skill, anyone can learn it. Anyone can improve upon it, too.

The difference I would suggest is whether there is a desire to get that cock to cum from head or to cum some other way, for example by fucking. I know I suck a cock in a very different way when I intend for the guy to blow his load down my throat as opposed to when I'm trying to get him hard enough to fuck me. The skills are the same, but the way one uses those skills are different since working a dick to get it hard enough to fuck you requires you to know when to stop. Otherwise, that load gets 'wasted' down your throat. Or truly wasted onto the floor.

Maybe the real issue is who desires to taste cum and who is less likely to enjoy that pleasure. I am guessing that a gay guy is far more likely to be cum hungry than most any woman or curious straight guy. But I could be wrong (and I'd love to find out).

my two cents
 

My experience is that a blowjob is a matter of chemistry. I've known guys who thought I gave the best blow job in the world whiile other guys can't bust a nut in my mouth - go figure!

The best blow jobs I've ever had have been by women but on balance (maybe on average) men give the best blowjobs. I've known a lot of women who wouldn't do it but the few that would really, really did! I'd say in my opinion for a random blowjob I'll take man.

My experience
 

I haven't gotten nearly enough bjs - but from my experience, the best I ever got was from a man. My first gf got pretty good the more she did it. For me the key is how far they can take it. Most women never seem to even try to get much more than the head. The guy took my whole cock and paused - then went up an down a bit, then took it all. After about the 3rd time I shot my load!

On an odd side note... for some reason I like watching women suck more than men when I watch porn. Not sure why...

I'm a tv/cd and i think we give the best head

I think it is impossible to generalize. I have had mediocre blowjobs from both men and women, and I have had incredible blowjobs from both men and women. It seems to me more men are good at sucking cock than women. There is one women that has given me the best blowjobs I have ever had. I think what makes her so good at it is her enthusiasm, she truly loves sucking cock. She actually prefers sucking cock over getting fucked. She licks everything, deep throats, strokes with her hands, plays with my balls, fingers my ass, and does incredible things with her tongue. She tells me that when I am ready to cum she has q hard time deciding if she wants it on her face and tits or if she wants to swallow it, but she usually swallows. She got married last year and moved away, but we keep in touch. She says her husband does not like getting sucked (what's wrong with him?). When she comes out to visit family, we always get together so she can get her fill of cock.
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Men (like ME) give the best blowjobs!
 

I say we guys give the best blowjobs, hands down! Most women suck cock to get something...money, security, approval, love. Consequently, they don't really get very good at it and, like hot4dick said, most women just seem to get only the head in their mouth. We cock-sucking guys, on the other hand, LOVE sucking cock and, for us, it is truely a "labor of love!" I'll use myself as an example as I have been loving and sucking cocks for nearly 40 years, and have enjoyed performing oral sex for hundreds of different men in that time. I simply ADORE the male genitalia and will not hesitate to do anything I can to give a man pleasure. I don't even care who the guy is or what he looks like, either! I just LOVE sucking, licking, kissing, fondling and otherwise loving cocks and ANY cock will do, too! And I have learned to take the entire length of all but the biggest cocks into my loving mouth! I try to make it very clear that I'm ready and eager to give a guy the oral pleasure that most guys crave if he's simply willing to let me get the pleasure that I crave by putting my mouth on his penis! Many guys have told me that they've had their most intense orgasms ever after they'd cum in my mouth and many have remarked that it was soooo hot because they could sense I really loved sucking them. Women just don't do that!

Damn vs120tgrl - I would LOVE to find out!

I've never been sucked by a woman nor do I ever want to. I fully agree that of all the guys who have sucked me, the greatest pleasure came from those who actually love doing it. When I sense that the guy does it out of duty or reciprocity, I don't cum well with full force. But when I see him really enjoying, then I pound into his mouth and throw my load in. That's really glorious.

It's pure pleasure for me to suck a cock!
 

You hit it right on the head, Bago! I actually get incredible pleasure by sucking and loving cocks and try to make very clear to a man, even if I'm mouth-loving a guy through the gloryhole, that I adore his cock and what I'm doing with it and that I want him to have the greatest sexual experience he's ever had! I want him to know that I want to give him the max pleasure possible and that, when he's ready to cum, I want him to have an earth-shaking orgasm right there in my adoring mouth! I love it when, after using my hot and eager mouth, lips and tongue to give a guy intense pleasure, he actually loses it and has the loudest, most intense and hardest orgasm ever and uncontrolably blows a huge, hot load into my mouth...the perfect reward for my diligence! LET IT CUM!!!!!

Looks like I am going to be the sole voter for women here. Although I am pretty much strictly "bottom" now and rarely get sucked anymore at one time I did and I always felt women were better. Women were softer and more gentle with it and have fuller softer lips. Men just seem to want to grab it, tighten their lips around it and basically jack you off with their mouth. Now I know a lot of you will say you don`t do it like that but we were just suppose to "generalize" here. I have been told by many men that I "suck cock like a woman" and I personally find that to be a compliment regardless of how they ment it. :p

This is a interesting question. Watching porn gives you the idea that women really love sucking cock. And we've all seen the actress that really knows how to make love to a cock. However I've noticed that many porn actresses are what I call 'lazy cocksuckers' meaning hold onto it and just work the head and not the shaft. Then of course we all wish our GF's/wives woud suck as good as porn actresses do but how can you 'train' a GF or wife to suck cock.
Now not all of us can watch lesbians enjoying a pussy but man, to watch them in porn(!!). Lesbians tend to 'make love' to a pussy where we men just eat away.
So I think since cocks know how good being sucked feels, cocks know what and how to suck another cock like a lesbian knows how it feels to eat pussy.
In a arcade or other public place, I especially like those rare guys that know how to suck a cock and make it cum in a minute or less!!!

Do a lot of licking and kissing and he should get the hint!
 

I think it's pretty easy to see from their faces that the girls in the porn flicks are getting paid for this and that's the only reason they do it. Of course, there are some exceptions and, most of the guys in all-male videos look the same way, too! I love to do lots of licking and kissing as well as sucking and this not only turns us BOTH on, if there are other guys watching, they get a great show, too!

Even when I'm giving a guy a blowjob through the glory hole at an ABS, I always make sure to lick all over his cock head and along the underside and do what I call "side sucking" as well, where I slide my mouth wetly along the sides of a guy's shaft. You ought to hear the moans of pleasure I hear when I do that! I spend a lot of time licking and exploring the contours of a cock head, too, and guys universally love to have you lick and flick your tongue just under the tip. The cock will almost always jerk and twitch when you do that and it makes your guy feel great! This is especially fun for me when a guys is really leaking precum! Yummy!

I also make a point to kiss the tip of a guy's cock, not only to show him that I love his cock, but it is also a real turn-on for me to do that! I learned how much we all like this when my cousin and I were naked and fooling around many years ago. No one else was home so we came down from his bedroom, both of us completely naked, and began playing in my aunt's livingroom. My cousin was lounging back in a big overstuffed chair with his butt at the edge of the cushion and his legs spread wide over the arms. I was sitting on the floor, close in, and was positively "feeding" on his cock and balls, ocassionally giving his asshole a lick, too! (And, YES! I do kiss assholes! Makes me really hot!) He was moaning a lot and breathing hard and I could see he was really getting turned-on. I was too so, between kisses on his cockhead, I looked him straight in the eye and asked, "Do you know what I'm doing?" Breathlessly, he replied, "Yeah, you're kissing it!" "Kissing what?" I pressed him, both of us getting obviously hotter as we talked about it. "My cock," he replied in absolute awe, "you're kissing my cock!" He seemed incredulous that I was actually doing that! I then asked, "Do you know what I'm saying by doing that?" He was really turned-on by then and gasped, "Yeah, that you love it. You love my cock!" I kind of lost it then and began kissing his cock wetly and wildly, all the while muttering between kisses, "I love it, I do love it, oh how I love your cock!" All became a blur then as I slid my wet and cock-hungry mouth all the way down over the full length of his straining penis and began sucking like there was no tomorrow! I don't think I had pumped my mouth over his shaft more than three times when he gave that particular strangling groan right our loud and shot off into my mouth like only a very hot eighteen-year-old can! I felt like I was pulling every hot, thick rope of cum right up out of his balls and it felt like the flood would never end, either! I remember frantically swallowing and swallowing in a frenzy of cocksucking pleasure and I knew that we had reached a fabled point...I had indeed "sucked him dry!"

So now, whether I'm sucking a stranger off through the glory hole in an ABS video booth, or blowing a guy in the parking lot of a theater, I always make sure that I very obviously kiss the man's cock, right on the dripping tip, wanting to make it very clear that I really do love his cock and get MY pleasure by serving his pleasure! That's why I say that guys suck infinitely better than girls!

hands down, guys suck better . . . particularly if it's someone like YGHL... i visit the abs still and it's always SO great to be pleasured as he describes it. :p ... with women, it's ALWAYS a prelude to sex with their cunt and THEIR orgasm... give me a guy's blowjob who is centering on the thing that he loves to do.:p

Interesting about the kissing of the cock to show that you respect it and appreciate being offered to suck it to explosive completion.

men
 

Well never got a blowjob from a woman either but all the married and bi guys tell me we are the best at it. I just lose myself in pleasuring a man while playing with his nipples or cock. Can kiss the shaft up and down and that tip all over. Sucking on balls to really get him horny really help too. Yet I love the taste of that sweet cum and it shows from all of us cocksuckers as men

The Ultimate Kiss...
 

When I have gotten face-to-face with a guy for sex (meaning not through a glory hole), I find that the vast majority of guys have never had anyone kiss their cock or balls and that this act really turns them on and they tell me that. I do it to show them that I actually LOVE their cock and balls, that I am truely a devotee' of the male genitalia and that I really do WORSHIP the magnificent sex organs of men! Funny, I actually began to fall in love with cock in my very early teens (12-13 years old) and remember being so fascinated with that wonderful and very attractive organ. I remember secretly drawing pictures of cocks and dreaming about what it would be like to actually become what I heard my middle school chums derisively call a "cocksucker." What would it be like to actually put my mouth on a man's cock and sucking it??? I could hardly comprehend this act but actually began to secretly yearn to do it! I was 18 when I finally did it, being "forced" to go into a toilet stall in the men's room of the old Allentown, PA bus terminal with a guy who caught me writing dirty stuff on the walls and threatened to take me to the cops.

love my balls kissed and licked and sucked and fondled and fingered... and my aroused nipples are directly connected to my cock (hint, hint)

Well now gloryhole you owe that old fart a thank you. He sure did open up a whole new world for you.

Yes I do! and I "thanked" him for almost four years!
 

You're exactly right Kellboi and I spent the next 3-1/2 years showing him and all his friends just how thankful I was for that very lucky encounter in that old men's room in Allentown! After we got in that toilet stall, he ordered me onto my knees and when I was down there, he opened his pants, unzipped his fly and told me to "open wide!" I did and he unceremoniously shoved his fat, dripping, hairy cock right into my mouth and ordered me to suck it! So I did! But in fact, his cock tasted and felt incredible in my mouth and a wave of the hottest pleasure I had ever known washed through my skinny body and I began to suck him like I was born to it! I just loved it and never wanted it to end! Before I knew it, I was pumping my eager young mouth back and forth over the entire thick length of the stranger's throbbing cock. The guy was crooning lewd words of encouragement to me as I sucked and his hot talk made me even hotter! I seemed to be on cruise-control now and just knew that he would soon cum in my mouth. What I was unprepared for was, after I felt his whole body stiffen and he roughly grabbed the back of my head, held it and uttered a strangling groan, was the force of his squirtting cum as he unloaded into the back of my throat, almost gagging me! But I had the presence of mind to fight back that reflex and just let the wonderful pleasure of sucking him off wash over my whole being. His cum tasted GREAT and I just gulped it down as fast as I could, not wanting to miss one delicious drop!

Yum yum gloryhole and know what you mean there. I too get lost in the haze of pleasure and excitement when sucking a cock.It is so addictive too lol like a drug high and just cant stay away from. Must be the way our brains are wired.