Acceptable Risk: The Cock Edition
 

If we can agree that sex is good, and (most of the time) good for you, then we’re all off to a rip-roaring good start, my fellow horn dogs.

However, many of us have a line that we will not cross in regards to certain sexual activities, due to likes/dislikes and more often due to STD concerns.

So how about sharing a little about what you will/won’t do, and maybe tell us why.

SUCK: NEVER (Yech! That’s nasty and I am NOT going there!)
SUCK: WITH condom (Latex: Tasty and Delicious!)
SUCK: WITHOUT condom / NO eat cum (Hey! Don’t shoot in my eye!)
SUCK: WITHOUT condom / YES eat cum (Yum! Protein snack! Slu-r-r-rp!)

Me: I suck without a condom because the risk is low, and I love the taste of cock. If I can get the top to admit to being a shooter, then I would prefer to witness a great cum shot and then slurp up the remains; if he’s a dribbler/gusher/pumper, then I’ll just suck it up, right from the source.

I will suck WITHOUT a condom/Yes eat cum.

As you said the risk is low, and I love the taste and smell of dick and cum. Suck with a condom? If a guy asks, I just won't do it. The taste is bad and if I'm going to suck a dick, I want the cum that comes with it!

Bare meat, fresh load
 

I agree with those who prefer sucking bare meat, and love the load swirled around my mouth before sliding down my throat. I'm not in favor of bareback fucking because of the risk, even with someone I know. My fantasy is to be the cum sucker for a whole group of horny men.:p

I always suck cock bare. Love having guys cum in my mouth

I too love to suck cock bare but will not eat cum. I will not suck a guy if he ask to use a condom.

I love to suck on a cock love taking loads but if the guy insists on wearing a condom I will let him I just want to feel a mans cock in my mouth

I suck off without a condom - with someone I know and know is safe (I am aware you never can fully know - but mostly know) I will swallow.

I have never sucked a condom or been asked to - guess I would try it once but not sure what it would be like...

As for sucking with a condom... I have done the deed VERY briefly, twice.
1. Plain Lube-Free Condom: It's just like those damned dental dams used when you're getting a root canal. The taste makes me want to hurl, and the sense memory of excruciating dental work ain't helping. (Thank you, no.)
2. Banana Flavored Condom: A gift from a routine STD screening at the County Health Clinic. I tried it as a novelty, and yes, it did have a bit of a banana flavor, which immediately wore off and became the experience of a mouth full of plain latex. See No. 1 above. (No. No. Really, I mean no.)

And as for the flavor of cum... Well, to paraphrase Forrest (“Run, Forrest! Run!”) Gump: Sucking dick to get at that all-important cum load is kind of like working your way through a fantastic box of chocolates (kinda, sorta). It's well known that no two loads taste alike, and that diet plays an enormous role in the many flavors of (hopefully) yummy or (Ick! Ack!) scummy cum. Hey, wouldn’t it be fun to have a Cum Tasting event, similar to a Wine Tasting, where you could sample and grade the cum from a dozen or so guys, clearing your palate between samplings, etc. (Hel-lo, Kinsey Institute/Mayo Clinic? Where's THAT study? And call me if you need Volunteer Tasters.)

Man, all that talk of dick and cum has left me hungry. So haul out those nice and clean, pre-cumming, load-blasting dicks, please. It’s feeding time at the Man Zoo.

I suck dick without a condom, sometimes several in a night at the baths. Whether I want him to cum in my mouth or not varies with the situation (which may be as simple as what mood I'm in). No doubt, having a guy shoot in my mouth is usually a real turn-on, but not always.

I have sucked a few guys wearing condoms because I like pleasuring guys and if that's what they find pleasurable, it's OK with me. Not long ago a guy presented me with a sheathed dick and he came really quick--that was a surprise, and I sort of enjoyed tonguing the cum-filled balloon at the tip. Different strokes, as they say....

I will not be sucked with a condom, nor will I suck someone 'shielded.' What greater joy is there than having a warm mouth and tongue swirling round your naked cock until it explodes, and having him lick up every drop? And why suck cock if you cannot taste it a well?

I am most creative when it cums to cocks!
 

I LOVE sucking bare cocks and can't think of anything more thrilling than having a man cum in my mouth! I love to let him fill my mouth before I swallow as I really love the flavor! I also love how cum coats my mouth and throat and I can still taste it hours later. I've sucked off strangers thru the glory holes for many years and have sucked off hundreds of different men and never had any kind of STD. I think the risk is really low...and the pleasure for both of us is really great...so I continue sucking cocks thru the glory hole to this day! And, I really love the variety, too! Big cocks and small, all races and colors, all sizes and shapes, cut and uncut...I LOVE them all and love to suck them off! But I especially love dark, uncut cocks (black, Indian, Hispanic, etc.), very large cocks (make me work for the pleasure!), and very big, thick, strong-tasting loads...cum loads that fill my mouth, taste awesome and stick to my ribs! I also like a man to cum really hard and loud when he finally blows his nut in my mouth!

I have sucked off two guys who wore condoms. (I guess they were married and didn't want to bring anything home!) They were unlubed rubbers and, although I took them into my mouth with some trepidation, I soon found out that the condom had little or no taste at all and the shape and heat of the cock inside were the same as when bare! I sucked them as if they were bare, too, and soon felt them throb and jerk as they came inside my mouth. It was quite a thrill to see how the bloated reservoir tip stood straight out and how the cockhead was awash in cum! The first guy handed me the full rubber thru the glory hole before he left the video booth and I asked the second for the rubber, which he gladly gave me. I then spent some very hot moments playing with those full rubbers with my tongueand slipping my tongue inside to taste that hot cum, before I finally sucked their load out of the condom and swallowed it! (What can I say? I really do LOVE cum!!!) YUMMY! :D

Condomless !
 

Condomless cocksucker only, tried it a few times but can't stand the taste or texture of it. Won't do it no more.
Spent years ignoring the many different colors of cocks until I tried a few and since- I'm hooked, Especially long black dick, mmmm. Nothing like a hard cock shootin in my mouth.
I mostly shy away from un-cuts, just to much skin to work with for me.... And I must confess, I prefer to spit or allow a slow dribble down my chin hehe.

I have sucked guys with condoms a couple of times and it was ok, but I really prefer bare. I have only been sucked bare. I sometimes swallow (easy cleanup) but when I can I love to get a good facial. At the baths once I get a couple loads on my face and chest I can walk around and everyone can see how much fun I am and I get even more cock to suck.

What is the reason to use a condom for oral sex? I'm really not understanding. HIV is very hard to transmit, that fact was established years ago. No one could possibly enjoy the taste of latex. So really, why even both to suck if you insist on a barrier between yourself and the dick you crave? It honestly makes no sense to me.

It does remind me of the philosophy of Scott O'Hara on this subject (not an exact quote): "If you want safety, don't have sex because sex is risky. Emotionally risky, and yes, risky for your health. Period."

According to the local STD Clinic, if you have an open cut(s) inside the mouth such as on your lower inner lip, the risk is much greater.
I've sucked with a sore throat which made me think about what was said. Myself, I like to suck without a condom because I like the cock that way. Yes, I will swallow if the cock cums in my mouth however most cocks will pull out and jerk to orgasm.
I've wanted to try the anal thing however I've wanted to take the cock bareback because I want to feel the cock orgasm inside of me.
Recently I sucked a cock with two condoms on at a public place and I thought he was just wanting to be safe. Later I realized that he was wanting anal sex. So I 'blew' my chance of having anal for my first time!
One thing I won't do is ass-to-mouth sex. The rectum is not a good place for the oral thing due to bacterium in that area plus we all know what comes out of there! I have been rimmed before though and it is pleasureable on the recieving end. I've also been 'fingered' which I find pleasureable as well.
And lets not forget the balls. Balls are very enjoyable as well. I enjoy holding and 'kneading' the cocks balls while sucking. Have you ever had your balls 'fingered' when being sucked through a gloryhole!!??

I don't get the rubber either, but I do love sucking cock, soooo....
 

The two guys I sucked who wore rubbers, I didn't ask or suggest it. They just did it! I guess it turned them on somehow. Funny thing was, I had see a girl in a video suck a guy off into a rubber and then suck out his cum and it looked like a turn-on. So when this actually happened, I was interested in doing it. Of course, I was ready to refuse if they tasted bad and was very surprised to find whatever type these guys used was pretty tasteless! So I did it, although I did miss the flavor of male meat and the thrill of tasting and feeling a guy's hot cum spurting into my mouth! I did feel them cum though, it was just different. I had no trouble making them cum either!

Every time I take a cock into my mouth, I fully expect to have the guy cum there. I love every aspect of cocks and sucking them and receiving a guy's rippin' hot orgasm in my mouth is the most thrilling thing on earth! I love the taste of cum and how it feels in my mouth and I always swallow it! I can't imagine sucking a man to the intense pleasure of an orgasm and then saying a mental "Ooooo! Yuk!" and taking his cock out just before he cums to shoot into space! Or, worse yet, spitting his cum out! Silly women do that!!!

And yes! I love a man's balls, too, and spend plenty of time licking, kissing and gently sucking a guy's balls whenever I can! I love big glory holes that a guy can push his hairy balls into so I can lick them and feel them against my lips and chin as I suck his cock. I learned how much men like their balls being loved many years ago the first time I ever went to a highway rest area where I heard guys were having sex. I made small talk with a stranger who wandered by my car as I sat there not knowing quite what to do and, just a few minutes later, I found myself following this guy into the dark woods at the edge of the parking area. I found him in the dark by the glow from his cigarette and saw that he already had his pants down around his ankles and his cock out and ready for me! I did the only thing I could do and dropped to my knees with my mouth open. He stepped forward and put his still mostly soft cock right into my mouth! I engulfed his meat with my wet mouth and buried my lips and nose in his thick pubic bush, feeling his low-hanging balls against my upturned chin...all sensations I dearly love! As I began to suck, his cock began to swell and I was soon sucking quite a length of dick and fighting to get all of it in my mouth. I pumped my mouth on it for about four or five minutes before he rudely pushed my head back with his hand and pulled his cock out of my mouth with a wet slurping sound I think you could have heard down by the cars! I whined out an annoyed "Hey..." but he just held his cock back against his belly and ordered, "Lick my balls!" Well, I was more than glad to do that and not only licked them, but for the next five minutes, I sucked and licked and kissed and loved all over his balls while he let his saliva-slick, dripping cock lay on my forehead and cheek! I finally welty kissed up the entire underside of his cock, kissed it right on the drippy tip and slid my eager mouth down over the entire length of his meat. I heard him gasp, he grabbed my head and uncontrollably blew his load right into the back of my throat, almost gagging me! I fought off the gag reflex though and gulped down his delicious cum as fast as he could pump it into my mouth! When he finished and he was zipping up, he thanked me for "working" his balls like that and told me I really knew how to please a guy with my mouth. I thanked him for the compliment and for the priviglege of sucking his cock and balls and we parted ways. Ahter that, if I could, I always spent time loving a man's balls with my mouth and found this really turned guys on. In fact, my cousin once told me that the way I sucked and licked his balls was one of his favorite things about our sex-play and how hot it made him feel.

Sucking guys off is just so much friggin' fun, it's amazing!

wow. you sound like you know what you like... love a good blowjob that includes getting my balls licked and fondled and kissed. mmmm... sounds like you give a great blowjob, man. :p

mmmmmm -- Ball suck ---- mmmmmmmmm
Had a guy once that was able to get my average sized throbbing member AND balls into his mouth!! That was a great sensation!!

condoms
 

Yea I always suck without a condom because I love the taste of hot cum. Love licking it up and moving it all around my mouth before swallowing. When doing anal though I ask strangers to use condoms on me eventho I have barebacked a few.

Absolutely agree. I once had this twink - though only a teenager he thought he knew better and insisted on sucking me only with a condom on. After awhile he complained that the condom tasted bad and wanted to change the activity. I decided that would be our last rendezvous.

Yes I do!!!
 

I'd love to give you (or any other man, for that matter!) exactly what you crave...to have a most exquisite blowjob with my warm, wet, very loving mouth all over your cock and balls and then to, finally, draw you closer and closer to your orgasm! And then when you just can't stand the intensity of the pleasure any more, you grab my head and fuck your huge, delicious load of cum right into my mouth for me to savor, enjoy and finally swallow! Ohhhh, I do fucking love it so!!! :p

I just received a notice in my email that a web site had linked to this.

In light of PrEP, PEP, and other changes in the years since this was last addressed, it seems worthy of an update.

The discussion is in Sex Advice but it turned into a pretty hot discussion of sucking.

With the years that have passed and the new developments, what do you think is acceptable risk?

If you've read my posts before you know what I think.

This is your turn, 2017 Edition.

My feelings have not really changed with the new drugs - I still am cautious but try not to be paranoid.

Now that does not mean blow jobs with a condom or refuse to let him cum in my mouth - from everything I have read that is a fairly low risk if I don't have an open sore in my mouth.

But bareback is out of the question.

After all these years they have made some progress in the battle against AIDS but it is still not something to be taken lightly.

The risk of transmitting HIV via oral sex with or without swallowing was very low before PREP and even lower now. But it is a huge mistake to think that a cocksucker is at much less risk by not taking an orgasm compared to taking the load because HIV is not just in semen. Somebody who doesn't want to risk other STIs, eg bringing gonorrhea home to the spouse, should be wearing condoms period. Has nothing to do with exchanging body fluids. So yeah, some guys should be wearing condoms.

I will add here that although I'm only 55, I have osteoporosis. This is, of course, the brittle bone condition that usually comes only in old age. In my case, the doctor who treated me said the primary cause was multiple steriod injections in my lower spine over several years to treat sciatica.

What does this have to do with PrEP?

My primary care doctor told me I should not take Kaletra because it is associated with bone loss conditions including osteopenia and osteoporosis. He did give me a prescription for Kaletra for PEP (post-exposure prohylaxis). Since Kaletra is the only drug approved for PrEP, this may be an issue for some.

Having said that much, I'll explain further. My own life these last few years has been in such tumult that sex has been on the back burner, more or less theoretical than actual. :( Too many issues, too little time, too much stress, etc. Now I'm dealing with glaucoma and quite severe cataracts. Precocious once again, my eye doctor says I'm "young with old person eyes." So, I can no longer drive at night. It's getting worse daily, and I hope to have surgery sooner rather than later. I digress.

However, I ended my co-dependent relationship, I'm about to sell my too-big house, and I've moved into the city. When I can see again, unless someone wants to play in the dark, and I feel ready - not before - I expect to resume the same practices I did in the 90s, before all the "cocktail" drugs.

That means not necessarily lots of men or lots of sex, but instead seeking out the best possible experiences. Back then as well as now, I'd already been around the block and had at least a taste of most things in gay sex, so for me it's best to explore more deeply the type of men and experiences where something more powerful and moving could happen, even if just for a few minutes, an hour, a night, or whatever.

As for risk, for me it's case by case and never a rule of one thing for all experiences, men, or situations.

To be clear, I don't advise this for anyone else. It's just what has worked best for me since I came out in the 80s, just as the HIV/AIDS era was beginning.

As always, I urge people to educate themselves and make informed, knowledgeable choices. Also, don't get swept away in the moment (or under the influence of whatever) and do something other than what you have chosen. You always have the right to say yes or to say no.

I wish there was a "like" or "applause" feature on these boards - because this statement is the key -

Well, I originally planned to post this in "Dirty Stories" but it's actually better posted here, 'cause it wasn't so dirty, but I cannot deny it was HOT. I have not barebacked in over 30 years; I don't have a regular partner. Last month I got to know a couple (both tops) around my age who have navigated this epidemic with the same caution. They enjoy their play so they went through the standard protocol of serial HIV tests before and during the first several months of being on PrEP. And they hadn't been with anyone in months, decreasing likelihood of other STIs. These guys were more than willing to play either with or without condoms. After giving it some thought, I decided to play condomless. On the bed, on the floor, tag-teamed in the sling, OMG it was great. First load delivered directly inside in 30 years. Oooh (or is that Ooozze).

But it was done with some research, background, and confidence. I don't have plans to start PrEP myself, so that might be the last time it happens. But it was a memorable experience, for sure.

Good for you, NakedAl. Sounds like you made a thoughtful choice, knew what you were doing, and had a great time! :)

It sounds like you really thought it out -

There is always some risk for anything (I know a number of guys that will not suck cock without a condom) but it seems like you made sure to limit your risk and enjoy it -

And I understand the temptation - it has been years and would be damn fun to do again....

For many years, it was condoms only, then mostly, now, it all depends on the venue, whether a stranger or how horny I am and have an insatiable urge to be barebacked.