How come Farangs support financially Thai boys?
 

My thread is inspired by Wowpow's stories about Thai boys such as how Farangs buy these guys condo,car,etc while they take the money to support their GF!!!
I've missed something!!!
Is this a love story?as the saying goes"love is blind"or what???I'd admit that the first time I offed the very first boy,he said he was 23(they all say that),he got a nice body,he fucked like god,he dared to kiss me(not all of them),so I was sooo happy that I gave hime 20 USD tips+100 B for taxi+2000 B off fee.I was told later on that I was the stupidest costumer on earth.Guess,after having the money from my hands,he had changed attitudes,he kept kissing me and didn't seem to be willing to leaving my hotel room.It was moving,he kept staying at the half-open door as I cruelly shut it at his face(I shared the room with another guy,so no way to house the Thai boy overnight).I'd been thinking about hime for awhile.
But this was my first guy.
Then have come others,now they all look like the same...I can hardly imagine buying houses and cars for them.
So my question is how come some do this?Is it a hormonal thing?How can you buy such things to these guys when you know that for 1500 B you can get one different nightly?Is it because at some stage of life,everyone wants to settle down?No matter how it costs...???

Dear KIKI..

We all have our own reasons for doing some silly things. BARBOYS are like THERAPISTS. They get paid for providing services for those wounded souls.......The more time you need to be seen, the bigger the bills.


:)

Some insights
 

I, too, know quite a few bar boys. More so as a visitor to a bar than a customer of the boys.

I think one of the reasons some farangs support a guy or gal in this business is comfort. They enjoy the person's company and want to spend more time with them upon return visits to the kingdom. By helping to support them, they are virtually guaranteed "quality" time together.......unless as someone pointed out two or more such customers are in town at the same time.

There comes a time for some people, myself included, that you do not want someone new where the unknown could be of questionable quality. Instead, you want someone known who you enjoy being with and can ensure a great time or you are sure will do what you are craving at the time.

Financing Thais?
 

I guess we all have different agendas,
Whatever the relationship, it always costs money, if you're married, or have kids, they're very costly, and I guess some guys want company.
Myself, I have a straight Thai, who has been friends for several years, and come Christmas and Birthdays, always gets a gift, and there's never any question of sex, so if they want to give presents, what better way than fighting someone.
In this season of Good will, I'm sure many joys will be offered, and I'm lucky to have a partner for 17 years, who is my sugar son, at 77 it's nice to be showered with gifts, though I'm blessed to not need for much, his love is more than enough, and I guess many Farangs think the same of their boys.
If it's not too early, may I wish all Cruisers
A Very Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year

Speaking as someone who's done it before...
 

I have done it twice in the last fifteen years and had little to regret because I always understood that nothing was permanent.

I did it because for the little while that each relationship (of sorts) lasted, it made me happy and gave me a reason to look forward much much more to my holidays in Thailand.

I enjoyed the guys' company when we went out for meals, to the cinema, etc...


They performed wonderfully in bed...and they were honest enough to tell me when they were getting maried. That honesty, much as the news hurt me, I truly appreciated.

In the end, I guess yo could say that I needed their company as much as they needed my money. It was a good bargain.

Tao

PS
Am I the only one here stupid enough to admit to it? And I'm not even farang...LOL!!!