disappointing massage attitude
 

Aaaaargh!

I'm mad at Hero. There's a guy I've used a couple of times there. The BEST sex I've had. I'm back in town for a few days, called and called but no answer. Dropped by and he wasn't there. Used another guy who wouldn't let me fuck him. I mean, what's the point?! I'm 6ft, lean & muscular, handsome, and paying.
Anyway... massage was ok. I then left my number for them to call the next day when "mr x" arrived. it got to 5pm I called, he was there, they lost my number, now he was busy with a customer. Jeez. Now, I tip well... trust me. And I'm hot, trust me. I go to Hero (or wherever) because I know what I want and I'll pay to have it, plus it avoids complications.
So then I call some guy from www.masseurthailand.com... evidently to busy (watching tv by the sound of it) to listen to what I was asking and arrange an appointment.

My point is - why offer a f*ing massage service if a) you're not prepared to have sex with a customer, if he's paying you for basically anything he wants you to do. b) not call back when it means a certain good tip. c) be on an on-call massage website when you don't care when someone calls!

But on a final note.... went to No Body in Sukhumvit 33. NICE place, for a small venue. Choice of boys wasn't my type at all, except one small lean guy with a nice face, darkish. I think his name was Tod. Anywaysss. he gave an adequate massage, but when he was getting me horny hear the end, I slid off his underpants (he'd kept them on in the massage - they thought I was a straight man who accidentally came in) and this guy had one of the biggest, hardest dicks I've ever seen from a Thai guy that small.

We both finished the massage mutually satisfied :-) but sadly, still no fuck.

Please tell me: am I seriously expecting too much from these guys?

Dear Mr. "Hot" guy,

Yes, you are expecting too much. No one is under any obligation to get fucked. If you want someone who will bottom, you MUST communicate such before hand. Ask the mamasan first, but if it's that important to you, get an agreement from the boy before you start the massage.

These guys are not sex slaves. Each has his limits, and they should be respected.

Expecting too much
 

Not only do you ask too much, but I think you are exposing an arrogant and condescending attitude.

who said anything about sex slaves? they made a choice to work in a place where clearly, sex is expected from customers.

My friendly advice
 

Just pop in a local sauna .
I am sure you can get fuck as much as you cannot handle .
And the best part is YOU DON'T NEED TO PAY FOR SEX
Well , almost .

Some masseurs may have already been fucked 4 - 5 times that day, so they cannot take another cock. Some may not feel well to perform. So, you HAVE TO get the mamason to go and ask the masseur directly whether he can be fucked "today". Do NOT omit the word "today" in your enquiry.

Just tell the mamason "Can you go and ask him (the masseur) whether he can be fucked today ?, just in case he has a stomach problem and cannot perofrm."

The mamason will generally be glad to do that for you.

I agree with what you say about going to a sauna ,like Babylon. The problem I have with that is that I'm a hygeine freak - it's like a phobia almost. And it seems that there's always "something" left on the floor of the dark room. I'm sweating just thinking about it..... RUN FOR THE DETTOL!!!!

Attitude
 

I get concerned when a person demonstartes an attidude of privlage based on money, looks or position. The men and women that work in Thailand in the sex , tourist, banking, retail industry and other sectors are, as a whole fine, decent people. They have needs, wants and deserve repect as people throughout the world deserve respect.

First, You are willing to pay for sex. Fine. That does not intitle you to any and all sexual activities. You must be clear in what you want. No one is a mind reader. And money does not buy the right to degrad or require someone to do something they do not want to do.

Second, You may believe you are a hot, handsome stud. But my hunch is many of us, Thai or not, would not find you so. The Thai looking at you at Hero may see an ungly farang.

I am not a young stud. The best one could say is that my body is all right and I am not ugly. And yet, I have had great sex in Thailand and I do not always have to pay. Paying for sex is often (for me) not as good as the sex I have with a willing partner.

Your attitude seems immature. Perhaps spending some time trying to understand human behavior will improve your emotional life and your sex life.

jeez dickwad, are you totally missing the point on purpose?
customers are customers. i don't have to think about feelings, I'm there to purchase a product.
and trust me... when i'm there sat on the sofa ready to choose, and there ARE the ugly farangs sat alongside me... trust me, I know who the eager stares are aimed at because they're lookin' me straight in the eye as if to say "please... help!"

Troll
 

I think that you guys are all having your chains pulled and your bells rattled. Before rising to the bait, and I was tempted to blast him too, look at the details of who you are responding to! Madagascar, California.......and he is 18yo!!

Countcharles has a very good point!

Correct
 

Good point. And you are right.

Chain pulling indeed.

I'd guess, however, that he's probably 18 AOL-years old....and probably has a 9 AOL-inch dick.

smell of troll
 

You guys are right !

The guy who cannot stand " something " left on the floor of the dark room doesn't care some stains on the massage bed :D :D :D