help a newbie in bangkok?
 

I have been wanting to go cruising for a long time, or at least get some form of discrete action while I am in a heterosexual relationship. Unfortunately its a relationship I am stuck in for the foreseeable future but as I am sure all of you can understand I NEED COCK.

I work Silom and have been reading about several good locations in the area and have even been to them a few times but far to shy to really be sure if I was receiving the signals correctly or not, or really how to start.

I have tried to arrange a few meets with people online, but unfortunately I am super busy and there has rarely been time to do it. Does anyone know of any easy quick to access cruise locations near the Yada building in Silom? Or someone in the area want to hook up during the day and meet for some quick fun some time this week?

Also my biggest fear is that I do work for my dad, so I am worried that if I am recognized with him at lunch, the proverbial cat will be out of the bag if someone was to say something. Is this a rational or irrational fear?

I can't imagine it is a huge risk, its not like someone will walk up to me and say "WOW you really took my cum in you yesterday" or anything.

Oh and FYI I have only been fucked once and it was year and years ago, he was 55+ and I was about 15 so as you can understand I have been craving that a LONG LONG TIME. Super bad.

You didn't say whether you're Thai, Other Asian, Farang, or how old you are ... the solution may well differ.

However, in your situation, I think if you want cock, you should either be looking in a sauna or buying it at a massage place.

Free cruising whether street or online has risk of complications. Like you said, you may **** into him around town and things can get awkward. Or he may become attached to you even after a one night stand and continue to bother you. Or there's a trail on your computer to the sites you visited.

Sauna sex tends to be on a no name basis. Massage sex even better. Even if the guy bumps into you, he is unlikely to spill the beans - because that would mean himself owning up to selling sex.

Sorry I should have been more specific. I am 21, falang.

I was thinking saunas of massage places, but they quiet intimidating if you have never been to one before, and was trying to avoid catching any nasties.

Difficult to know what I should do, I am tempted to just tell my girlfriend I swing both ways and getting her to hide it from my dad, I am sure she'd be cool with it.

Aussie btw too. 150 pounds, 6ft2, athletic.

If you're 21 and only 150 lbs, then saunas should work for you. The first time is always intimdating, but after that first time, you'd wonder what were you ever afraid of. Consider Heaven Sauna on Mahesak Road. Near you. Quieter place, so an easier learning curve.

Should I worried Id become addicted :P?
 

How much does a sauna usually cost, and shouldn't I be worried about STDs ect, are guys generally safe?

I live in sukhumvit 16, haven't heard of Mahesak road. I am very interested in meeting up with older GWMs specifically, is there a good one near sukhumvit 22 or 16 that would have more than average older GWMs?

The idea is very exciting I think I may check it out this weekend if I get up the courage.

My biggest fear is that in the moment I will want cum in me... I know I am the type to always push for unprotected sex and not worry about the consequences until later, which is fkn stupid. Hopefully safety is the norm. Thank god I have been lucky so far, had a STD test for my current long term girlfriend after she wanted to start taking the pill so I have a clean bill of health and I haven't had any other relationships since then. Fuck I am horny this is killing me.

So into GWM 46 here and live in your soi!!!!

Saunas are fun and safe. Up to you what you want to do. No one is going to force you into anything. Try Babylon if your prefer GWM as many older ones there.

Have fun and I hope I bumb into you in our Soi one day.:)

I am German 52 Sukhumvit soi 22... 180, 82, 6" cut. versatile. I am bi like you. [email removed]

Well, some rather good news. I outted myself to my girlfriends as I felt she loved me enough to understand. Turns out she now wants to watch, and asked if I minded her joining as she had always wanted to be with 2 guys. Lucky me :D. But I am not sure how I'd feel about seeing another man fuck her, but her seeing a man fuck me must feel strange too. But if she gets off on it on the other hand and I don't. Sounds like we gotta work out some ground rules.

But I must say I feel really relieved and thankful that I found someone so awesome and perfect. I knew she was good but this I didn't expect. Now I don't need to be as discrete as before, just keep it away from my dad. Sweet.

I'll have to get emailing some people for some hook ups :P

I am an aussie and will be at Babylon next Saturday. Maybe I can help out ;)

Hmmm see.... you are not short of takers. Have fun! ;)

Yeah, but I am looking for someone particular to bring me back into all of this, plus I was working out the logistics with my girlfriend who is actually quiet turned on by it all, and has requested to watch and then was awesome and brought home a female friend... (so straight guys out there, you don't even have to prove that your bi just tell them and perhaps it will work out the same lol kidding). But she is turning out to be quiet the nympho...

Looking for someone close by to me who has nights free, like late evenings after dinner with the family sort of thing, the husband who gets in his car and cruises would be nice but I doubt realistic here (had such a nice time in australia when beckoned over to a car with a torch, I really didn't know what he wanted at first though).

Anyway If you live in the area and are interested in being gentle drop me a line.