Dwight! The vast majority of gay men "HATE" effeminant & so-called nelly behavior. Most gay sexual venues and bars don't want 'fems' present'. These businesses are owned by hypocritical persons that share your leftish, victimization ideology. Could you ever critize a gay institution that harbors extreme animosity towards effeminant men?? You sound like you wish you were born a female and remain very bitter & angry.Blaming right wingers or republicans for your troubled life is a cheap cop out! Trust me, you will find scads of subtle discrimination within the various gay communities--guys like you would be the prime target!!!