Whoa, look what I started........

So I will chime back in.....

If the conservatives who hijacked this nation in the early 1980's and the "Leeches" gay and straight that make their money from gay bars and bath-houses had allowed us to discuss our sexual practices in our own language this entire dialogue would be moot.

The biggest barriers to safer sex are those put up by others who won't allow us to reach others to prevent them from getting infected with HIV and other STDs.

Sex occurs in the little head and the big one. Problem is that most guys are so concerned with "sensation" and the "eroticism" of barebacking they forget that sex can be incredibly HOT and SATISFYING if you actually bother to get in tune with the guy you are with. If someone is truly turning me on, whether its his bod, his attitude/personality, or just the way he kisses I could wear a hefty bag on my cock and get off.

It's just easier to engage in what I like to think of as disconnected connection. How many times have many of us had sex, made that connection, and really not been there at all, but somewhere else in our minds.

Being totally connected is the ultimate in sex, even if you just jack off or dry hump each other while making out like animals.

And if all that fails, just take a goddamn Viagra, that'll keep you hard while wearing a condom.

Maybe its me, but I have seen barebacking at clubs and parties and half the reason I swear they do it is because most of the time the guy on top isn't fully hard cause he is disinterested, drunk or high, and couldn't put a condom on if he wanted to. But he can squeeze his dick and force into some guys ass.

And lets not even get into the issue that most gay men are NOT getting tested regularly and those that are positive are NOT disclosing their status, because so many UNIFORMED "negative" men treat them like lepers.

Cant wait to see what this starts.....