Assuming it's clean is usually a given for me. I always hope that the guy I'm going to fuck has already taken care of that. It's not distasteful so to speak to enjoy the enema as foreplay, but you should definitely let the guy know that that's part of the deal. I for one would be a little put off to show up and be asked to do that first. Actually, I'd probably just leave, but, not because I have judgements about it, but because it's usually just a given. When I make connections online with bottoms, most say they need time to get ready and then come by. Maybe you should ask if they want to be part of that before they get there.
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