Seduction and Situational Bisexuality
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After reading Upnadam's account of seducing a straight male, I'm more than convinced that under the "right circumstance", many heterosexual males will practice situational bisexuality with other males -- regardless of the other guy's sexual orientation.
Ordinarily, we think that straight males are typically the seducer in a male-female sexual encounter. We also tend to think the male is the initiator of sex with a female partner. What we have been hearing over the past couple of decades is straight males are becoming more receptive to being seduced by females, with the female becoming the initiator of sex with their male sex partner. What I believe is emerging here is an undercurrent of change where there is a kind of gender role reversal in sexual relationships between males and females. This does not imply a male is undergoing some kind of sexual identity transformation just because he is becoming more receptive to and comfortable with a gender role reversal where he welcomes the female sex partner as the seducer and the initiator of sex between the two.
It might, however, suggest that he is more openminded to being seduced by another male under the right circumstance and more receptive to engaging in situational bisexuality with another male. Under the right circumstance, a straight male's perception of his heterosexual identity remains intact and not threatened in those situations where he is seduced by another male who is the initiator of sex between the two.
What is not commonly understood is what are the "right circumstances" that make it possible for a straight male to engage in situational bisexuality with another male.
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