As long as you have asked the guy, as you said you would, and he gives you his permission -- why not?
I'd feel flattered, too.
I'd also require that the guy SHOW me the images he has snapped and allow me to decide if he can retain said images or if they need to be deleted should other parts of me be shown that I do not wish to be shown.
But that would pretty much be something any polite photographer would do.
And frankly, I've sent out so many pics of my dick, my face and BOTH my dick and face together in one shot that it's really too late for me to personally worry about my pic getting out there.
We don't need to discuss the ramifications of taking candid photos; we've been there before and all seem to agree this is NOT a good idea.
Over the years, many guys have sent me their pics online, naturally. I have saved many of them, but not all. The men I enjoyed spending time with earn 700K worth of space on my hard drive. Most of these pics are just "normal" face shots, voluntarily sent as part of the hookup process. I don't DO anything with these pics -- they are for ME and me alone. Now and then I'll browse them as thumbnails and recall a fun encounter I had with a dude who is now long gone. No harm in that. I NEVER, EVER share anyone's photo with anyone else.
I HAVE had OTHER guys start talking to me about tricks THEY have had, and suddenly they send me the guy's photo in my email and ask me to give my opinion of their conquest.
I don't get this. I find it odd, as if they are seeking the approval of a stranger regarding another stranger -- and it's also damn rude and disrespectful.
This is not something that happens often, though. Most guys seem to respect the privacy of other men.
The one and only dude I hooked up with from CFS was a photographer. He wanted pics of me and my dick. I let him take a bunch using my own cheap-ass digital cam. The pics came out looking mostly awful because the cam was a piece of crap, but it was fun and very erotic to have him snapping photos of my hard cock. There were several face shots as well. Since it was my own cam, I just took it home and made my own decisions on the photos. I had taken a few images of him, too. I sent him ALL the photos via email. Neither of us were concerned about it.
We had discussed taking some REAL pictures using his professional camera and actual film... but never got around to it before he moved to another city. Bummer.
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