When I finally told my wife I was actively bi, we had the problems you might expect. But with counseling, she has been convinced, that I can't change, I love her, and she is the only women I have ever had sex with. So she came up with 14 rules I have to follow with my tricks.
But the point of this post is that we bought a strap on and the first time she put it on, you'd have thought she was a male top.
She loved the feeling of power she got just having a cock. She loves to walk around and watch that big cock swing in front of her. Don't know what Freud would say (well, yes I do), but boy does her personality change when she is fucking me. Lots of women have been fucked over all their life. Time for the shoe to be on the other foot