And then there is the silly idea that some guys like anonymous sex because it's ... anonymous. .
Saying that you met a guy in an ABS booth and had a great time, but don't understand why he doesn't want to get together elsewhere (or whatever),.. is like saying I met a guy who is really into leather, but he gets uncomfortable when I ask him to cross-dress.
Different scene. Don't push it.
This (to me) is very much like the guys that I've met at ABS's who hook up with me, are really into me, we have an awesome time, they say 'you're hot', blah-blah-blah, and we pass each other and smile but never hook up again. They're putting notches in their belt ... that's their scene. The 'conquest' part of the encounter is a big part of the turn-on (I'm kinda' like that, too).