You may be onto something there Taoboxer. When I was in Chakran, I was kinda turned on by the older guys there. I know they may have been in their 50's and had a belly and the they lost the look of youth... And if my friend did not pull me out of the room I am sure an older guy would be remembering the black guy who may well have been his first. All we did was touch each other and I can't seem to forget him