Being fresh out of an abusive relationship with and alcoholic, it's no wonder you're anxious and have trouble sleeping. Sometimes we forget that the trauma doesn't end just because we leave the relationship. Maybe try looking at those past issues and finding some peace and resolve with them?
I know it sounds crazy because it's been a year, but I went through the same thing years ago with a partner and my sex life suffered big time after the relationship ended. It wasn't until I faced the shit and dealt with it that I got my confidence and self esteem back, two very important factors in a healthy sex life.
Let us know how you're doing.
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