I'm not telling anyone anything except that I made a mistake and that Leo's is a must-see if you're gay, love saunas and in Penang.
I went there again last night but missed the show as I was busy. The remains of the buffet had been cleared up and re-set out neatly for latecomers who wanted to help themselves but the place was buzzing as usual. I left at midnight (age does catch up with one, I guess) after *ahem* having fun with two guys. The white gentleman was not there but just in case there should be others who might misconstrue my statements, I did find out that he was English and not American. There were a couple of other mat sallehs there but they were obviously too busy to chat so I didn't manage to make their acquaintance.
Incidentally, regarding the first (englis) gentleman I met, we had a nice time together before chatting over coffee (free at Leo). He didn't know how old I was though I did suspect that he wasn't local (and obviously of mature years) because of his body hair. It was too dark to tell and we had to do everything by feel. And I have VERY sensitive fingers among other things...
Tao