Dear PEE TAO.
You said it perfectly right about my shyness. I don't feel comfortable making the first move . Suana goers behave differently in The United States due to wide varieties of sizes and colors. It's been my experience that small and slender asians are much more attractive if we are less aggressive. therefore,I have conditioned myself to behave like one of those shy virgins in order to attract those bugs and bees.
I guess I 'll have to make some adjustments to get what I want when visiting those suanas in Thailand......
First few trips to 39 I might ask NINJA to hold my hand ,while walking around nakked ,if I get rediculously nervous.