On this lat trip I did not go to any massage houses other than to get a massage at Babylon and one in the Sauna in Chiang Mai. They were both non-sexual and pretty good.
When I did go to a massage place on my prior trip, I went to Arena and the massage was very nice. I told the guy no sex but erotic is ok. I did not want to cum but I do enjoy the feel of a mans body on my body and I got just what I wanted