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he keeps talking wierd stuff to me and holding my cock
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First, why was he STILL holding your cock? If I'm telling someone no thanks, I'm also pulling my hips back and pushing his hands away from the jewels.
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i tell him a little bit more forcefully im NOT into that stuff and im gonna just stay here for a while. he keeps holding my cock now tighter and more forcefully. i ask nicely one more time to please go and leave me here to jerk off
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Now he's holding your cock TIGHTER and you haven't stopped him?
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and had no choice but to grab him by the throat as hard as i could and throw him out on the floor of the place and was hoping id scare him into lettng go of my cock which he did thank god
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You had to throw him on the floor to get him to let go of your cock? Wow, he must have had quite a grip... I'd have just given him a good shove and said DON'T TOUCH ME!
Personally, I don't think your response was appropriate. Your stats show you're a big guy... I would think NO means NO.
But, if you pussyfoot around and act coy and sort of beat around the bush, you're giving mixed signals.
I've seen guys that reject my first advance, but, by just standing there watching them (and letting them watch me) they're bending over taking it in ass... oh yeah, they say they NEVER do this, but you know it's all a game.
Make sure your signals are CLEAR. Tell him NO and push his hands away IMMEDIATELY. You'll get better results in the future.