If you scroll up, nnjbigguy started this thread. Unless a repy indicated otherwise, I assume that posts here are directed to the guy who started the thread. After noting the comments from others telling nnjbigguy what he did wrong, I merely suggested in my December 5th reply that he could delete his own post and move on.

Bayshore33611 certainly understood my message. He uses that technique often. In fact, he is one of the undislosed "others" in my remark about what others have done when they find themselves "swimming against the tide."

He claims here that "some moderators have started removing my posts" and notes parenthetically that they remove his as well. That is not true. Bayshore33611 has removed some of his replies in threads where he put his foot in his mouth (as he does often). I can't identify a single instance where one of my posts have been deleted. Perhaps, he Bayshore33611 could be more specific. This aside, in the rare instances where a moderator does intervene and edits or deletes a post, there is an editorial comment noting that fact.

Finally, I don't understand why men like to have sex in an ABS or a public toilet but I don't crusade against it. Having said that, it follows that I can't generate any empathy when someone shares a bad experience that happened in such a venue.