It's actually very easy. Been on 11 cruises and hooked up on all but one. It was a short cruise on a very small ship. With more time, I would probably been successfull that time too. I've hooked up with guests (married and gay), crew, and performers (both ship and guest).
Like pickmorr says, go to the steam/sauna. Just like any straight gym, look for and give subtle signs of interest. Eye contact, touching, stroking, semi erection, hanging around for extended periods, moving back and forth between shower/sauna/steam room. I always go nude, sitting or lying on my towel and showing my equipment. I have found that guys who keep tightly wrapped up are not interested and I steer clear of them. Not to say a guy who is nude always is, but the chances are much better.
Last time was a month ago. Went in the sauna and layed down on my towel with eyes closed. Heard someone come in, so a few minutes later I sat up and saw a good looking black guy across from me with a nice semi. I thought he might be a dancer on the ship (he was), made eye contact, reached down and gently stroked myself. He responded in kind (I'm bigger than average but he was HUGE). We got down to business (actually, I got "down") when another guy who I knew was a fellow cruiser came in. Neither the black guy or I were interested in him (fat and out of shape), so the black guy told me to dress and meet him at another location. It was a handicap restroom on a lower deck with a lock on the door.... very remote and quite. We did what we had to do. I met him again the next day in the wet area....he was just leaving 'cause the other guy was pestering him. We again retreated to the handicap restroom and took care of business. Another succesful cruise!
Only time I was invited back to a guy's cabin, he was a guest performer in a singing group and they get single cabins.
One last caveat. This guy told me that he heard it was company policy to inform all family members traveling with you if you got caught. Not a big deal to me, my wife knows I'm bi and she knows why I go to the steam room for an hour every day. Policy varies between cruise lines and I'm not going to say which one this was to protect my friend.
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