I wish I had an answer for you, but I don't - I have looked for these private gatherings for a while as well. I love sex clubs, I love the group atmosphere, and on the rare occasions I've stumbled into private gatherings, they have been greatly enjoyable - all the hot sex, with a lot less (though sadly not 0) of the attitude. So I figure I might as well at least through my name up there too - same as Hung, I'm an exhibionist and voyeur, in my case with a heavy emphasis on enjoying rimming hot ass. Into men of all types, ages, and races - long as you got a clean ass, I have a seat for ya.