I know this is a Thai board and that most of you guys do have a train of thought regarding sex with young guys thats maybe more Thai orientated. But Malaysian gay boys/young guys, in the main, dont really do saunas and/or bars and to some point find the principle strange. The gay boys that visit those places in Malaysia are in a vast minority.
Ive been going to Malaysia since 1980 usually once/twice a year - and probably one of the first GWM's to visit BlueBoy way back in those days. Yep its been going that long.
Probably, being a GWM in Malaysia has its distinct advantages and I do appreciate that.
I'm in my early 60's now and live in England with my young Malaysian Indian boyfriend/partner who is absolutely wonderful, thoughtful, loving and caring and with a self belief to stand back in awe of. Im here to see whats happening on the Malaysian board and as usual not much and the comments about Malaysia seem to have been taken over by the Thai section.
Ive had several Malaysian lovers over the years - one in particular for 8 yrs who I met in UK while he was studying there and who introduced me to his country all those years ago. So as you can tell I didnt really do cruising for sex properly - I did do it for England, so to speak, but always thinking everyone was the one for me hmmm.
Malaysia is a wonderful country and while Ive been there and single Ive never wanted to visit saunas for sex - in fact it never ocurred to me and even up to my late 50's - a stroll along Bintang Walk or around Lot 10, Sungai Wang Plaza, KLCC etc (not to forget Central Market grrr and some places Im not telling you, lol) was all that was needed to find a most beautiful or even plain but deliciously sexy boy.
Just a glance, eye contact, use your smile, a genuine one, and its so easy to get into conversation, they almost all speak english. Some amusing conversation (ok chat up lines) and an invitation for perhaps iced chocolate at Dome or some such place and these extremely well educated boys respond sensationally.
It sometimes ends up with a memorable night (or two) in your hotel - and there arn't many hotels in Malaysia (well none I've used including Istana, Hilton, Mutiara, Federal, Swiss Garden, Regent, Rasa Sayang etc and more) that frowns on you taking a boy back and you can even register them for free so that they can use the hotel facilities! maybe not a different one every night though
Maybe cruisingforsex with boys in numbers is a big turn on - and Ive done that and almost everything else perhaps most people have only ever fantasized about but the lovely boys of Malaysia are incredible as they are.
Malaysia is a secret, regarding hotels and the boys etc, that some of us have held close for many years but now Im old and settled I dont care if you all know
I have many Malaysian friends there now who love me as a friend and always keep in touch simply out of friendship and fondness.
I have been to Thailand many times and I do love the country also specially Phuket - Ive even taken a malay boy on holiday there and he was a sensation - but the sex culture of the two countrys is so far apart that its not really sensible to use the Thai sex scene as a yardstick or for comparison with Malaysia.
Malaysia is not a place where you dont know their real names or need to know their number on their shorts or that they are someones brother etc but one where you will probably be given their handphone numbers and their names and even an address.
When you go to Malaysia look at the scene there as differently from Thailand and with the curiosity you would if you were going to Lithuania, Australian Gold Coast or Egypt etc and there are lovely young guys in all those places.
Appreciate what some of the Malaysian boys problems are specially with the national religion and delight in the fact that despite this they are still some of the sexiest, warmest, polite, well educated and charming boys on earth and are there waiting for you.
Maybe just visiting saunas and bars etc could make you miss a lot.
PS - Offer money only if you feel like offending them, sadly breaking their hearts can be easier to do.
PPS Hope im not offending anyone here as there is absolutely no intention to.