Can't possibly tell you if you got the real deal from your online order. Most Viagra sales online are legit.
Sounds psychological to me. Just because you take Viagra and are ALSO pleased to give your boyfriend something he enjoys doesn't mean that you will get hard.
Maybe you're feeling some sort of pressure to perform. Maybe deep inside you wish you were alone with your boyfriend. Maybe you feel that you would prefer to not be doing this. And... maybe it bugs you a bit that YOU are totally happy being alone with your boyfriend but HE wants another guy in the picture.
Truth be told, dude... that would bug the shit out of me.
This is coming from a guy who has been in that situation, doing stuff because I thought it would thrill other guys but ultimately finding that I just wasn't into it for myself.
Best you can do... enjoy the sex you have with your boyfriend with no one else there. If you feel you want to give him that something extra with another guy's dick in your mouth -- that's YOUR choice to make. Learn to accept the fact that you might not get hard. TELL your boyfriend AND the other guy that you are into it, but that you don't get hard from this activity.
Once it's out in the open, perhaps your dick will respond if the pressure's off.
Realize it is frustrating to be pleasing others and not getting off yourself, but ultimately, it comes down to a choice that only you can make. Do you want to keep doing this and are you TRULY OK with it, or would you rather NOT engage in this sharing?
If you think you really do NOT enjoy it at all -- time for a talk with your boyfriend. But if you're cool with it, just do your best to have fun even if you aren't hard. Probably you will GET hard if you are relaxed and into it.
Viagra and other ED drugs only work if you are stimulated and INTO the sex you are having, though they DO make it easier to get it up with LESS overall stimulation.
Really think this has far more to do with how you feel INSIDE than the efficacy of the drug.
Best of luck to you, dude.
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