Well, dude... I'M just like your boyfriend, except that I tend to hold off on cumming for many hours instead of cumming multiple times in a few hours.
I also like a guy to kneel down between my legs, and most certainly DO find this to be a problem for a LOT of dudes who cannot handle that kind of marathon stint.
I met this fucking HOT, gorgeous trucker dude a couple weeks ago. Just my type. Liked him a whole lot. There were other problems which made me realize that it was going to be a one-time deal with him (we just didn't click on some levels), but MOSTLY it was the fact that he could only suck dick for a few minutes on his knees and had a seriously hard time standing up after that -- and he's a year younger than me. He sort of rushed me to cum in fifteen minutes and this is not what I wanted.
Have gotten to the point of making sure I ASK dudes if they have strong knees, and have also made a habit of requesting at LEAST a half-hour minimum, but longer is better when I can get it.
So... here's what has worked for guys I hang out with:
1) As posted above, swap positions. He can stand while you sit. Now, it is almost as tough for me to stand for a long period of time when getting sucked off -- my legs get shaky. But I can do it for a while and let the guy relax his own legs.
I met with a dude in a hotel a few times. He got a room with a table that was the perfect position for him to sit on the edge of the bed with me leaning on the table. As it turned out, this was HOT AS HELL and took pressure off my legs. We kept that position for about three hours, no problem, with a short break in the middle.
2) TAKE A BREAK. Take several. I ALWAYS tell guys (and my regular buddies know) that they can have breaks when they need it. Most just tell me: "How about a break now, dude?" Sure, no problem. I LOVE getting hard all over again after a break. Most guys can go half an hour, take a ten minute break, then go another half hour. Usually during this time we smoke, talk, or I am the very grateful and lucky recipient of a nice foot massage or back rub -- or I will be glad to do the same for HIM.
3) Which leads to... ASK HIM to give you a massage in the parts of your body that get stiff. I have NO problem rubbing a guy's neck or shoulders or whatever he wants, considering all he's been doing for ME. He can lay down and relax and I'll help him out. Hopefully YOUR guy will be eager to do the same for you.
4) Alternate positions while on the floor, between his knees.
My one buddy, who can suck dick even longer than I can take it, will just shift around. He'll kneel directly in front of me, which is what I like best, but he will also sit cross-legged for a while or lean over on his side, extend his legs out, and kind of come at my dick from an angle. He will use his arms for leverage to take the weight off his knees, which I enjoy because it changes the angle of his head.
5) You mentioned knee pads, which are good idea, but it seems they don't work all that well for you. Try out various pillows as well or instead of the knee pads. Softer pillows probably won't work, so try using some with more substance.
6) DO discuss this with him. I personally MUCH prefer a guy in that exact position. I'm not fond of laying down and getting sucked -- the angle is "off" for me. But I will certainly do whatever I can to make sure the guy blowing me is happy and comfortable, even if it means that I am not as comfortable as I might like.
7) See if he's into fucking your mouth. For me, fucking a guy's mouth provides a GREAT angle, very similar to sitting back with him between my legs. HE can sit leaning against the side of the bed on the floor, stretch out his legs and I can stand over him. In fact, sometimes this is even hotter than kicking back in my favorite chair, but admittedly... it depends on the guy and if he's good at getting his face fucked.
It's all about communication and some amount of compromise. If he's not willing to do ANYTHING to help you out... sadly... I'd agree and say it's time for you to move along, but that would be a last resort. If he cares about you he will most certainly be willing to explore some options.
I often meet with a buddy and go to his place. He's got a trailer in his yard and we mess around in there. There's a small sofa across from the breakfast table. Leaning on the table, as I did with the dude in the hotel, with him sitting on the sofa, works GREAT. Met with him on Monday night and had a HOT time. He's ten years older than me, and while he CAN kneel down for a while, I know it is easier for him to sit and relax. No problem. It's worth the compromise.
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