Point well made/taken, Mike. I think another issue is that some guys may be online, putting out their name, then ending up backing out because they jacked off, hence, were't able to bone up for the meet. More often I suspect they weren't serious about the meet from the start. Yes, life happens. But when they bail time after time, after a long build up, planning to meet, that really sucks.....especially when it leaves your dick hard, unserviced and 'cum overload'
I'd rather share, than just J/O solo, if I had the choice