jobud8, just do what you feel comfortable doing and not what others say you should do. You won't be expected to play with someone you aren't attracted to. If I had to choose between being a lookie loo watching a hot guy jack off or be groped and chased by an overweight 80 year old.... (you know the answer).
I wouldn't bother asking the clubs directly about what the place is like. They're only going to tell you what they think you want to hear.
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