Obviously this is subjective and there are some inconsistencies depending on the individual boy etc, but I would encourage you to try Hero. My last visit I had Jack who was fantastic, but you really need to look at the boys and see who you find attractive. That doesn't guarantee a good massage, but at Hero you have a high probability of having a memorable experience.

At Hero, for two hours, it's B 1050 I believe. I think the minimum tip for 2 hours is B1500. Whatever it is, they'll tell you. Jack got considerably more. Since this sounds like your first trip to Bangkok, I would suggest you be generous, always assuming you're having a good time.

At Hero and the other better quality places, the shower will be in the same room where you undress and have the massage, so you'll be able to keep an eye on your possessions. I've never felt any worry about it, but it is wise to be cautious.

At Hero, the boy will undress with you and shower with you before and after. That's understood and expected. No need to tell him. You should probably have told him what else you want before even getting started, but if you are shy about that (no need, he's heard it all before) you can direct the course of events as they unfold. He will start out with a more or less "legitimate" physical massage, but a happy ending for all is more or less assumed. Once again, I can recommend Jack if you feel worried. "Enthusiastic" would describe his approach, so you needn't be nervous about how things will turn out.

No way around it. You'll have to tell him or ask the mamasan to tell him. Believe me, no one will find that the least bit odd or hesitate to comply.

I think for your first time, it would be best to go to one of the upscale places and leave the bargain places for a time when you feel more experienced.

If you mean the commercial gogo bars, you won't "meet" a guy. They're generally up on a platform, wearing a number and shuffling to the music. You indicate to the guy or the mamasan that you want him to come over and sit with you. Offer him a drink and chat. If you feel you want to take him off, tell him what you want to do. Again, no need to feel shy.
Generally the "off fee" in the Soi Twilight neighborhood is B400. It'll be added to your drink tab and you pay as you leave.
What you tip the boy depends on how things go and how long you spend together, but I would put the minimum at B1500 assuming you enjoy yourself. Others would probably lower that, but why spend all this money on a holiday and then play Scrooge with the guys who are making it a holiday to remember?

Quote |