-- As I u'stand. these matters there are
three types whom one may
off -
1.-
The R&F. a go-go boyz on the stage, who are identified by the number shewn on their briefs.
-
NB.:
in TH. it's considered extremely rude to point at someone with one's finger or foot- hence the number. One asks one of the waiters or Bar Capt'n. for
'Boi number so-and-so.', who will be brought-over to join you for a drink, social chat and whatever else!
- The
off-fee for an R&F. boi is gen'lly.
300-400.Bh..
2.-
Ordinary waiters who serve you drinks.
- Their
off-fee is MORE expensive than ordinary R&F. boyz.
3.-
Bar Captains, who generally look and try to act superior to the ordinary waiters; quite often they'll be the ones wearing jackets, or will sit with you making small talk, massaging your neck and so on; trying to sweet-talk and to soften you up for taking-out a boi or two.
- Again their
off-fee will be MORE expensive than for an ordinary waiter.
-- There's
no need to be embarrassed in talking-about your needs/requirements to a Bar Capt'n. or MamaSan - they've heard it all before and probably a lot MORE than you'd imagine in your wildest and most uninhibited moments!
- Contrary to many another respondent in
CFS. > TH. before leaving I try to obtain agreement on svces. offered and provided and a rough expectation of payment - back in the hotel it may be too late!
-- Just go ahead and enjoy!
--
Bibi.. --