Glad to see I'm not getting a horrible reaction. I guess it's just the first time, going alone, that makes me nervous. I know my guy goes there specifically to find men, and he would have no interest in a female in that context. (Anywhere else and he'd be totally into some girl offering to get him off, of course!) I wasn't sure how many other people share his reason for going to the ABS. But the enthusiasm, here, at least, is fairly reassuring.