No doubt, the rules of hetero dating must have changed with the onset of new technologies. Sure, the breeder dudes might have been somewhere behind the wave. The things always take long time, if majority of any kind is involved.
Yet, sex without dating, romance, etc., has made very significant forrays into the str8 world. Internet powered cheap, massive communication, which in turn made sex-without-dating an easy option.
Why nobody called a bluff? Hard to say. Every single dude must have had his own reason. Yet, the least common denominator must have been a generally positive sex attitude. So, the dude wanted desperately wanted to suck your dick? What's the big deal?
What is so profoundly wrong is the predator mentality and the blatant disregard for the concept of consentual sex. If proven guilty, this dude will face some very hard time...
KD
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