You have two obvious choices: go to an adult book store and make a connection, or go to a gay bar and do a pickup. I'm assuming you don't have any gay friends willing to pop your anal cherry as I'm sure you would not have had to write for advice.

There are some serious considerations before you get yourself in this situation. You're married, and have broached the subject with your wife. How will she react if this becomes public later or becomes a regular thing? If you can deal with the guilt of cheating on your wife, and it is cheating whether with a woman or another guy, proceed. If not, just go buy a dildo and make believe.

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