Nope. Not at all.
Actually, quite to the contrary.
#1 Being wrapped gives me a sense of being reasonably safe, and of acting responsibly. I do not believe in regrets later but in doing the reasonably acceptable things in the first place.
#2 Even the best bttm dudes have erm, little 'accidents' now and then. Yeah, as we all know, shit really happens. Being wrapped makes it easier for both the bottom and the top.
#3 Putting on a condom can be a part of a cool, even bonding foreplay. The bottom dude knows what's up, (pun intended), and he also knows that you are acting responsibly and in his and your best interest.
#4 Once the going gets rough, condoms can reduce the friction a bit, and add up to some quality time in the zone.
It really all boils down to two things.
First off, it is your attitude. In this time and age, there is really no viable alternative to wrapping it up. So, you may just have the serenity to accept the things that you cannot change, and go with them.
Second off, we are all creatures of habit. Most of us needed some time to learn the ropes and get accustomed to sex in the first place. Doing it with condoms is just like wearing contact lenses: you need some time to get used to both handling and wearing them, too. But once you do, you stop sweating it, don't you?
KD
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