Internet dating is not really for everyone. You seem to have found an environment which works for you... Why not stick with it?
If you are really cruising for sex, and have the goodies, the baths will be always difficult to beat.
People hook up via the net, too. Yet, such hook-ups usually involve a degree of personal involvement. This always takes both time and effort. And it is often rather frustrating for both parties.
You accurately describe the usual bath scene... you find a place to lay on your tummy, and a top guy comes over and does his thing with your little help
Usually no talk, no lies, no bs. Just the good, ole sex...
If you really want to go into serious dating, give the net a chance, and arm yourself with loads of patience.
KD