If you say no and they still go after you, then I agree it's torture to have to put up with it. If there's anything I hate, it's nodding a definite no, or saying no, or even saying, "I'm definitely not interested"--and then older guy keeps going after me. Maybe they find some guys give in. Or they think, "wow, this guy talked to me--even if he said no--he might really be interested even if he says he's not" or "I know this game--he says no--that's a signal that he wants to play hard-to-get and I should go after him." Again, there are a LOT of weird psycho games that go on in saunas. I've had times where I've wanted to kill people.
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