This will be my last post on this topic. Some people are just bar guys and a few don't like bars. I''ve never, ever been able to figure out bars.
I won't criticize anymore. Some people are just into Bangkok and Pattaya bar scenes. I've read that some genuine boys work in these places and hope to meet boyfriends. So maybe a lot of them are really good quality (i.e.--boyfriend material).
I've sat in bars maybe 6 times (the kind with boys on stage with numbers) and left after a short time. I couldn't believe the aggressiveness of the touts outside, and the pushiness to buy drinks and drop money.
Now that I read that 90% of them really do perform, maybe I'll go in and off one. But again, why do that when I can just find guys outside and in other cruising spots? I just think 2000 baht will go a LOT further outside a bar than inside (and there won't be all the drink costs and "off" fees).
(I never said that I've never been in a bar or had contact with bar boys. I've never offed one--but I've had contact with bar boys outside of bars--who aren't so money-hungry outside. The best time to meet them is during the daytime or after the bars close. I've had sex with some that I've met walking after the bars close--even a nice teen carrying his white briefs home in a little plastic bag! I remember this hot teen did it with me in a short-stay hotel in 2002 somewhere across from and south of Century Park Hotel which is not even near a gay area--without ever mentioning money--but I still gave him some. I still can't figure out why he was walking in that area--but he was definitely gay and liked it. I was new to Bangkok scene at that time and never realized what the white briefs were for.)
As a final thought, maybe people can post comments about really hot guys they've met in out-of-the way places.
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