I enthusiastically recommend TUI'S GUESTHOUSE (
Welcome to Tui's Place - Gay Guest House Pattaya) to you... small, gay owned and managed, welcoming and well located on the beach at Jomtien. (Please tell them that "Richard from New York" referred you if you look into the place!)
I will be there and can also help you navigate the Pattaya'n ropes if need be!