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Originally Posted by wantasian
Again, an observation: often the hottest guys don't go with anyone because they're just there to walk around and be looked at (narcisicism). Instead of a mirror, they have the atmosphere where they think everyone else is admiring them. It's an odd phenomenon--I noted this in a sauna in Sao Paulo, Brazil--where almost all the guys in there were extremely good-looking, and nobody was hooking up.
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it might not be all explained by narcissism. part of the answer is that some guys (especially frequent sauna visitors) don't go to saunas just to have sex. they go to spend (waste) time, chat with friends (other sauna regulars), some even hope to meet a boyfriend.