Originally Posted by icon513

Bottom line is that there should be NO expectation of ANYONE to do ANYTHING in particular unless it is AGREED IN ADVANCE.

If having a bareback bj is important to you, you must establish in advance that the masseur is prepared to do that.

If it is not established in advance, the masseur will not appreciate your cutting his tip because you expected him to do something he was not prepared to do and didn't promise to do.

Just because a guy works in a massage parlor or a bar does NOT mean he is going to be prepared to do anything and everything you want. He is not your sex slave for the cost of an off or massage.