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Originally Posted by Taoboxer
Which is why, if you cruise gay dating sites, you'll find so many 30, 40 and 50-year-old Asian men unashamedly referring to themselves as "b%s"
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I can't speak for Asian culture, but in the USA when a grown man, someone in his 40's and older still uses the word 'boy' to describe himself, I actually get turned off by him no matter how 'well preserved' he may look. I lust for the youth as much as anyone else does, but the attraction to older men is often their maturity and experience. Walking around in hot pants and acting like you're some innocent twink when you're actually 45 is sad to see. It shows a lack of growth for the person and is definitely a turn-off for this old man (turning 52 next month and proud to say it).
Signed,
Prissy Language Police Guy