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CRUISING for SEX - View Single Post - Growing Sexual Negativity
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Old 9th February 2015, 02:29 PM
jonn3
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Join Date: Feb 2001
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I can see where growing up with porn everywhere could make a guy overly anxious. The giant cocks - sex lasting for hours - when in reality most guys are 5 - 6 inches and what is it the studies say - most guys last 2 - 5 minutes of actual sex? But when growing up they see the performance in porn it makes them afraid they won't be about to match that.

For those of us who grew up when porn was usually a magazine we did not have those mental pictures to compare ourselves with.

We learned about sex fooling around - the good - the bad and the embarrassing.

Another issue I think for a lot of the younger guys - when we grew up we saw our buddies naked. Pissing on a tree when playing outside, changing / showering after gym, going swimming - we thought nothing of changing in front of each other and it led to a comfort level -

Now there are no showers after gym class and even changing to go swimming they wrap a towel around themselves or change 1 at a time in the bathroom - so there is an extra anxiety about just being seen naked....
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