The truth is that sex always costs money. Nope, a guy does not have to hire an escort.

Consider your usual gay bar/spa/club experience. There are entrance fees. Drinks are not for free either. And, though we are not talking hundreds of dollars each time for such an outing, there is no guarantee that you'll score. So, your investment may (and it sometimes does) go awry.

Now, a few guys point out that they go cruising in public parks, rest stops, etc. Yup. You can enter a public park for free. But you usually need to get there somehow. There goes your gas money, parking fees, time, and as we all know, cruising a public park is usually a time-consuming, slow-boat-to-China kind of experience. And it may get you nowhere. Or it may get into trouble with law. The costs involved in your legal defense may be quite significant.

I am not advocating frugality and austerity. We have one life to live. And the money is here to help us enjoy it, too. But regardless of how you choose to approach it, there is always going to be a price tag attached to it, even if it is a bunch of single dollar notes for the porn boots as John3 says. The amount may wary but the principle is always the same.

Now, add to the addition that you want to hit it with someone who may be out of your league, say, with regards to looks, age, endowment, whatever. You also want to make sure that your time won't be wasted. Naturally, the cost of the experience is invariably getting higher in absolute terms. And frankly, why shouldn't it? You are getting all the comfort, safety and pleasure you want, at a very low risk.

I am not advocating hiring escort services. But I perfectly agree with the idea that this works for quite a few people on both sides of the fence. I also believe that each and every adult should decide for himself if this is what he wants to do or not. It is always your time, your money and your life, so only your personal decisions matter.

KD

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