Similarly, I started having sex in my college years but usually with guys at least 15, 20, or 25 years older. I was particularly attracted to guys I could
talk to and who would treat me as an equal instead of just another cute young twink with a big dick.
Now I'm almost 55 and I'm still more attracted to men at least roughly my own age or older. Of course, I'm bald and have extremely short hair now and seldom wear my contacts and I've lost a lot of weight. Younger guys looking for a Daddy usually pay attention to someone else, which is just as well.
If only I had time to go out and play...